Poll: Pretending To Be Female

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OmniscientOstrich

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Phasmal said:
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Phasmal said:
I'm a bit skeptical of if this actually works though, as I'm a girl who plays, and while I dont make a big deal out of it, the most I've gotten is generally harrassment/unwanted flirting.
Yeah! I've been gaming for years, and no one ever gives me anything cool for being a female gamer. I've never been offered help or free stuff. I can't imagine why a guy would pretend to be a girl online - the most I've ever gotten is stalked. -_-;

Actually, I kind of like the flirting. That's nice. Well, until it turns into the aforementioned stalking....

But really, free stuff? Where's my free stuff? Huh? **crosses arms and waits for free girl stuff**

[sub]In all seriousness, I don't get this. Most girl gamers get little more than verbal abuse. Anyone care to enlighten me?[/sub]
From the look of things, all our free stuff is going to dudes pretending to be slutty.
Yeeeessss...that's right...pretending...*shifts eyes back and forth in totally non-suspicious way*
 

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xXxJessicaxXx said:
Phasmal said:
I'm a bit skeptical of if this actually works though, as I'm a girl who plays, and while I dont make a big deal out of it, the most I've gotten is generally harrassment/unwanted flirting.
Yeah I've never got a free ride and those who have helped me have been mates that I have helped back and suchlike.

I kind of think this is a bit of a myth, either that or I don't act slutty enough...or something lol.
Maybe you are just "lucky".

I always play female characters. Due to how i act ingame (how i talk use emotes etc.) a lot of guildies tell me i come across very feminine. Even as bad as people are in my guild for a long time and still think i am a real girl.

I am also a bit overfriendly and chatty. I have been offered free stuff and been hit upon multiple times. Never excepted any free stuff from strangers since it makes me feel like i am whoring myself. Most of the people that hit on me i just told them i wasn't interested(or that i am already taken).
 

Mischa87

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When it comes to MMOs,I've had a rather unique experience, being a transsexual (Male to female) Way back when, I wasn't aware of my own femininity, so I played as male characters. Now, everyone seemed to know I was female before I did (They thought I was a female person playing a male character) That got me some flak, and a whole lot of confusion on my part Fast forward today, while I'm IDing as female, and mid-transition. Now I play as female characters, and ID as female... And... I get even more flak, it's like I'm getting punished for being openly female, and playing games. It's pretty much either getting hit on by kids who are too young to have an inking of what to with a woman, REALLY creepy guys my own age (In the 20-25 range) aggressively hitting on me, or being assaulted with sexist comments which may or may not involve the production of sandwiches...

Having been a transgender support group facilitator, and knowing what I know about transgendered people. I've gotta wonder, are these guys who enjoy playing as female characters for reasons other than exploitation, exploring some sort of fetishistic transvestite side?

Also, not sure if you're all aware, but over 42% of gamers are actually female, so guys, think of how many of those are in hiding as male characters? Think of why they are, they're hiding from all the sexist bullshit, and unwanted advances from a large part of males. So guys, if you're thinking "there are no girls on the internet" then, first off, you'd be outright wrong, and second off, you're scaring them away from ever revealing that fact. If you'd actually like to see more female gamers, then stop shooting yourselves in your collective foots. And to the guys who aren't huge pigs, try to deter these assholes from harassing women (or any group for that matter), it'll do the whole community some good.
 

Xaio30

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Seriously, a little wink and a smile from a girl and a guy would help with practically anything.

Make use of it, dammit! We don't mind!
 

Ex_Solaris

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I've never done it just because when/if I ever get into an MMORPG or some such, my mind never floats to a female character type. I always envision any character I want to make as a guy, I dunno, maybe I'm just not creative, lol.
 

SweetNess_666

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Hehe well....on the rp realms on wow I pretend to be female then again its kinda easy as 2 or 3 times a month I head down Manchester and spend the night as a girl drinking dancing and getting unwanted attention so it sorta crosses over into gaming lol :) even had a guy on wow wanting me to be his Wow girlfreind, that got to weird for even me so I flew my flying mount as far away as I could get haha :)
 

ajemas

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No, I haven't. It just gives me a weird feeling when people are envisioning me as the opposite sex in real life.
Also, in your poll, how can you pretend to be female if you are a girl?
 

Phasmal

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ajemas said:
No, I haven't. It just gives me a weird feeling when people are envisioning me as the opposite sex in real life.
Also, in your poll, how can you pretend to be female if you are a girl?
You cant, which is why I put an extra `No` in there.
 

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I was round one of my girl mates houses once, she went off to do something, leaving her MSN on, so i started chatting to her mates, not telling them it was me, it was quite funny actually, didn't learn anything incriminating though, which was lucky =P
 

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I am female, but I have always chosen a male character for any game I've played. A few reasons would be to avoid harassment, the male clothing looks more normal to me, (females are usually always in a dress and high heels for some reason) and I guess respect.

I am not someone who is incapable or unwilling to accomplish things with my own power. Accepting multiple handouts from people or power leveling baffles me. I imagine males can avoid the guilt through feeling they are just tricking people into doing stuff for them, but it would be a direct blow to my pride. I suppose the bigger problem is that choosing either a male or female character will result in being treated a certain way.
 

hazabaza1

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Always play male.
I also find it funny when people either legitimate female or pretending to be female come in and say "I'm a girl" and I reply with "Good for you" and they start getting all angry.
 

InfectedStar

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I know that I definatelty don't and generally frown upon those who do (only if they're pretending).
 

OtherSideofSky

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No. I have Aspergers Syndrome (clinically diagnosed, and god do I hate the idiots who make it necessary to say that) and that kind of deception doesn't come naturally to me as a result. I've heard that NTs do this, though. They tend, in my experience, to be very deceptive and untrustworthy, so this doesn't surprise me. If they weren't the kind of losers who would do shit like this, they wouldn't build societies where it works.

I have played female characters in games with exclusive equipment (I'm very partial to the binded set in Demon's Souls, what with its high fire resistance and low weight) or games like Mass Effect where it's a different way to experience the story, but I have never and would never misrepresent my IRL gender to others.
NTs?
Neuro-typicals. People who aren't on the spectrum and have brains that work normally.
 

OtherSideofSky

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No. I have Aspergers Syndrome (clinically diagnosed, and god do I hate the idiots who make it necessary to say that)
May I ask why that irks you so much?
Because the self-diagnosed people have earned themselves such an awful reputation on the internet that they've made it hard for all of us and turned Aspergers Syndrome into an insult online. The fact that I have to so specifically separate myself from them reminds me of that.
 

ShadowsofHope

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Denamic said:
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Every female character I make in a game without voice chat, I do exactly that.

Works every. Damned. Time. No regrets. I mean, it is a video game, after all.

Heck, everyone I know on Guild Wars still think I'm the girl I pulled from a google image search onto their guild forums.. they'll never figure it out.
Congratulations, you're a transvestite.
It may be a game, but you are deceiving actual people.
It works, all that matters. Don't knock it if it works.

Kopikatsu said:
ShadowsofHope said:
Every female character I make in a game without voice chat, I do exactly that.

Works every. Damned. Time. No regrets. I mean, it is a video game, after all.

Heck, everyone I know on Guild Wars still think I'm the girl I pulled from a google image search onto their guild forums.. they'll never figure it out.
I did this, too.

Interestingly, I never did the 'Oh baby, you're so hot. If you give me all of your best items, I might go out with you...' thing that alot of guys do. I basically acted like a gigantic asshole. Apparently not only is that acceptable behavior for a woman, but it gets guys to fawn over you and drown you in fun trinkets.

There's your secret to life! Be an asshole and everything falls into place.
I always go with the "ambitious, calm yet assertive" type of female when I do it. Give them just enough "I wonder?" to make them malleable, yet also just enough "Well, you see.." to make some distance between myself and the person I'm manipulating with my act, as to keep them close and eager.

I'm such an asshole, but my gear and gold are so plentiful from it..
 

standokan

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Back in the stone age I did a quest in Runescape which included changing back and forth.
 

witheringsanity

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i'm male, and in any game i'm given a choice, i play a female. two reasons: 1, i'm attracted to females, so it makes sense that if i'm going to look at a character for X hours, it may as well be a nice looking one.

and 2, i feel that i'm more female than male anyway. i've never been all that masculine, and have had FAR more female friends than male friends (and i do mean friends, not love interests). it's just easier for me to get along with women, i dunno. if pressed i would say i'm a lesbian that was born a guy.... if that makes any sense at all.

but i've never done it to intentionally "trick" people or get things from them. i just act like a girl in games cause it comes naturally.
 

Scarim Coral

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No I don't play as the female nor do I intend to in future MMO games. While I got nothing against to those who played as female but I rather be honest by playing as my true gender to those who see or play alongside with. Ok sure I can easily tell them I'm a dude but 'm sure deceiving them the first place (well ok most guy don't really give a danm about your real gender while playing).
 

DSQ

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As a girl the exstent of my using my femaleness to get guys to do stuff for me begins and ends at 'carry my heavy bag because i am weak'.

But on the internets I tend to be honest.

Also I don't play MMO's so I havn't encountered many of the problems so girls come up against with really douchy/horny guys.
 

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Phasmal said:
Regarding MMO's, I know a lot of guys play female characters (which is cool), but I've also heard of (and known) some guys pretending they are female IRL in order to get help/free stuff off of unsuspecting guys.
I'm a bit skeptical of if this actually works though, as I'm a girl who plays, and while I dont make a big deal out of it, the most I've gotten is generally harrassment/unwanted flirting.
So I have a question for you, what do you guys think, and have you ever pretended to be female to get things?
If yes, did it work?
If no, would you, given the oppurtunity?
It goes both ways, I've run into guys who pretend to be girls, and girls who pretend to be guys. I've also met girls who claimed to be guys playing female characters until you really got to know them and wound up with them on voice chat. Pretty much every variation on the whole gender/crossdressing thing online has been done.

I play characters/have avatars of both genders, but I'm up front about being a dude, especially if asked. In many cases it's not an issue since people know me as a male character before I create any alts. depends on the game, the situation, and what I decide I like playing as.

To be honest, I have briefly considered messing with people's heads online by claiming I'm a hemaphrodite IRL (hey, they do exist), just to have some fun with people because of how concerned everyone gets over people's real gender. Not sure if I could pull it off, and to be honest I don't much care for long term deceptions that are going to PO people. :)

Just going by the raw numbers, you do know there have to be some she-males/futanari fodder and stuff out there playing games like WoW.