I'm sorry, but I've had conversations with you in the past, and I've had conversations with people
like you in the past. I'll admit it, I was grouping you up with the people who has been acting like I need to be pitied, both here, in real life and on other sites, so yes, I was being a hypocrite. I am sorry for that, fighting fire with fire doesn't always work.
You're not even fighting fire with fire, here. You're fighting kindling with fire. And then accusing the kindling of bullying you/
However, you're acting as if I'm being a bad person,
EVERYTHING I have to go on indicates that's true. From twisting my words and then complaining that I misunderstand you, to lumping me in with people while complaining about the same, to outright lying about me, to trivialising me. None of these are good behavours.
you keep twisting what I say (or at least misunderstand) so that I appear to be the worse person, and you accuse me of things I haven't done. How is that not "bullying"?
Worst case scenario, I'm lying. That's not in itself bullying. That you have to drum it up to bullying speaks to that exact issue.
In another thread (which shall not be named due to it being locked down) you accused me of lacking empathy, and now you're accusing me of being dishonest.
From what I can tell, however, both are true.
If being called on you doing things you are clearly doing upsets you, don't do them. But more to the point, you've had multiple instances of indignation at something I'm not saying. That's not honest.
You're not even giving me a fair chance to speak for myself, and honestly, it's hard to express certain things in a second language. :/
Then consider that I am not twisting your words, but that you are failing in a second language. I don't even know that this isn't your native language, but now you are insisting that a native English speaker isn't giving you a chance to express yourself when you say you have trouble doing so in this language in the first place. That's not logically consistent.
If you truly feel like you have anything more to say to me, feel free to send me it as a PM (be polite please), but I don't want to derail the conversation going on in the thread.
I'm honestly pretty sure I'd be better off for never speaking to you again in any language. But you don't get to tell me to take it to PM when you addressed this in public.
Oh, wow. Ehm, I was trying to take this out of the thread in order to make it better for other people, actually.
BTW, I'm really sorry people, I know I shouldn't reply, but I'm getting quite depressed by all of this ):
As for me failing in a second language, I did consider the possibility, but honestly, most conversations I've had in English have been very pleasant, so I have a feeling that's not it. What I meant was that people tend to ask "did you mean" if something I say seem off, and give me the possibility to clarify. Perhaps that's too much to ask for, as I've noticed that giving people the benefit of doubt isn't too common in threads, which is sad.
For instance, you haven't given me the benefit of doubt during this conversation, nor can I remember you doing so, perhaps because you already think I'm a bad person. Instead of asking me if I really intended to sound like I was trivializing, or if I was trying to make straw-men, you simply assumed I did. As for lacking empathy and being dishonest, I'm sorry if that's the impression I'm giving off then, no one else has told me anything like that, but perhaps they were just being polite. :/ Then again, I do tend to make friends far easier than enemies, so that doesn't make much sense either.
As for trivializing you, I do think I made it pretty clear that you were doing the same, but I'm not comfortable going into details about that, I probably never will be, and certainly not enough to make it a pissing contest.
Anyways, please understand that I did not mean to insult or trivialize or do anything bad towards you, I was simply trying to argue a point, which doesn't seem to have worked well. Rest assured, however, that I've learnt my lesson, I won't quote you nor anything you've said ever again.