So with another Comic-Con come and gone, the discussion again arises regarding sexism in geek culture. Reports of harassment and lewdness come about, some people on the social justice warpath, some people shrugging and wondering what the big deal is, and all the usual suspects in between.
What I want to know is whether staring, or blatantly looking at the exposed skin is acceptable. The costume has been designed specifically to have certain areas of the body exposed, so is looking at those areas without being too obvious or lecherous is acceptable?
The way I see it, looking from a distance is fine, but maintaining eye contact through conversation is necessary, and lewd comments and unwanted contact is always unacceptable.
The last con I went to, there was a group of guys sitting around a table, just watching the sexy costumes go by. No cat-calling, no creepers, just five dudes enjoying the eye candy. And I thought that was totally okay.
So where do you stand on where to look, Escapist?
What I want to know is whether staring, or blatantly looking at the exposed skin is acceptable. The costume has been designed specifically to have certain areas of the body exposed, so is looking at those areas without being too obvious or lecherous is acceptable?
The way I see it, looking from a distance is fine, but maintaining eye contact through conversation is necessary, and lewd comments and unwanted contact is always unacceptable.
The last con I went to, there was a group of guys sitting around a table, just watching the sexy costumes go by. No cat-calling, no creepers, just five dudes enjoying the eye candy. And I thought that was totally okay.
So where do you stand on where to look, Escapist?