The way I see it, the purpose of morality is (or should be) to prevent harm.
If religious "morality" demand that harmless acts should be considered immoral, and that a proper punishment for that is inflicting harm or death, then that cannot be considered morality. It's just a matter of "I don't like this, so anyone else who does it should be punished."
That said, demanding cultural change in exchange for aid is a touchy subject, since it can be used immorally as well. Take a religious organization, for example, offering aid while demanding that the foreign culture accepts their religion. It is also important to educate, so that people understand why the laws need[ed] to be changed.
If religious "morality" demand that harmless acts should be considered immoral, and that a proper punishment for that is inflicting harm or death, then that cannot be considered morality. It's just a matter of "I don't like this, so anyone else who does it should be punished."
That said, demanding cultural change in exchange for aid is a touchy subject, since it can be used immorally as well. Take a religious organization, for example, offering aid while demanding that the foreign culture accepts their religion. It is also important to educate, so that people understand why the laws need[ed] to be changed.