Retrograde said:
Ragsnstitches said:
The guy assumes his own apathy towards the subject is universal. As a man who has bizarre (figuratively) yearnings for procreation, not just for the sex, but with the mind of having kids of my own, I can safely prove the opposite of his world view simply by being me. A lot of people seem to develop an aversion to Kids for some reason.
As for the Womanly Prime Directive he seems to be ranting about? I'm not going to assume anything on that since I haven't put a lot of research into it. But from personal experience I can say that most women don't let their biology dominate their lives, just as much as most men don't let their boners dominate their social interactions.
The key word is "most" here.
Passively aggressively avoiding talking directly TO the person they're talking ABOUT are we? Nevermind lad, one of us has strength in his conviction.
So, I'm guessing you're a guy who is just out of school (if I had to guess) in his early twenties who lacks confidence and also probably a job and girlfriend. Tell me more about being a family man.
Straighten out the following contradiction and come back to me. You say that you "prove" that I'm wrong in my assertion that female breeding instinct is far deeper and more profound than the male variety simply by telling us you're a guy who wants kids. Fair enough.
If I hadn't outright said that people like you were definitely out there you might have a point.
However, you then describe your own feelings toward reproduction as 'bizarre yearnings', which is telling, and then you also yourself say "a lot of people develop an aversion to kids".
You can call it the womanly prime directive and attack the strawman of breeding controlling lives and boners controlling interactions all you like, that's got absolutely nothing to do with what I said. But then you create the strawman and then
don't burn it down because you admit you don't actually have any idea what you're talking about? Whatever kid.
Also, I think you and I have different definitions of 'rant'.
Well first off, you are awfully condescending, not exactly someone I would willingly choose as a verbal sparring partner. You are just unpleasant. That isn't a crack at you're ideals so much as how you present them. I only responded to lieju to chime in my support. Did I passively aggressively attack you? Yeah, if you take making an assumption on your standing with the subject as a passive aggressive attack then okay. I didn't say anything that directly targets you, other then claiming apathy towards kids (which is heavily inferred by your stance on the subject) and accusing you of ranting (which is evident by your deliberately confrontational attitude).
If you don't like that, I don't care. I haven't broken any rules.
Now, just out of school? I've been out of school for several years (almost 5 I think), so what is your barometer for "just". I work independently and, you are right, I'm not in any relationship currently. So 1 out of 3, good guess. Though even if you were correct on me being jobless, it's hardly a shot in the dark given the current economical crisis the world is facing. I am an exception to the norm, at least where I'm from.
I'll straighten out the contradiction very simply, by telling you I never said that. I said that my existence is proof that there is a Male biological imperative to procreate, since I have
urges that are not solely sexual (Paternal instincts maybe?). That is it, that is my proof and it ended there.
The follow up was not a proof but an observation. A lot of women I know are not driven by deeply seated urges to procreate. In fact, some have a complete aversion to kids. I'll grant you that some seem completely infatuated with the idea of having a baby and babies in general. But what I have described is a pretty broad spectrum only from my own extremely limited (relatively) experience.
This is in conflict with what you said earlier.
I refuse to believe that your blanket definition, that all women are driven by a primal urge, since by my own experience that isn't the case. Just like men are not all sexual horndogs and can operate without consideration for their penis, women can operate with complete indifference to their ovaries. [/Strawman]
You make a lot of assumptions but back up none. This is why I didn't fancy confronting you.
Some minor notes because fuck it, I really don't want to continue this with you unless you change your attitude:
*I said Bizarre figuratively (I literally said it right the fuck there next to it), so congratulations on taking it literally. I'm sure it served it's purpose in your mind.
*I admit to limited knowledge and am only speaking from personal experience, which conflicts with your binary view on things. This is distinct from you who talks in absolutes but fails to support it.
*Womanly Prime Directive was a facetious statement. It sounds silly, which was exactly the point. Did I strawman you? Well, I didn't take what you said and rewrite it, I just facetiously rephrased a term you used. It hardly subverted your argument, bar highlighting certain absurdities, since I never attempted to redefine it in the first place.
In other words, your point is still there, I just undercut the weight you imposed on it.
Lastly, if you are going to respond at least do us the honour of telling us what your social standing is, since it seemed awfully important for you to define who and what I am to preface your own retort. Are you a graduate? How long? Do you have job? Do you have a girlfriend or partner?