Poll: Talking it helps

[Kimberland]

So while in my usuall grumpy moods, my friend recomened someone that if I needed to talk to somone, and to keep it secretive, that I should add, [email protected] , over my msn, aperently he had been talking to this guy for a while. He gose by the name James. So with nothing better to do I added him. And well, I just talked to him. My mood improved and I was a tad bit happier. I dont talk to him much anymore. Now and then. But if you ever need to talk to somone dont be afrade to try this guy. Heh.


Anyways as for the dissusion part, dose talking to somone help you if you have a problem?

 

[SharPhoe]

It does help, sometimes. I say "sometimes" because I'm more than a little used to being the talker, not the talkee. As such, I can kinda say I've heard it all before, so to speak. Plus, when I seek someone else for something, I'm usually seeking actual help, not just advice.

 

[Soulgaunt]

Well, of course it does, although I chose a poll option too soon, as I just remembered that not everyone is the type of person to talk to about problems...

 

[manaman]

How could it not? Talking about a problem helps you to recognize the source of the problem, and really that is the first big steep towards a solution. Often times the only steep needed.

 

[Kimberland]

It does help, sometimes. I say "sometimes" because I'm more than a little used to being the talker, not the talkee. As such, I can kinda say I've heard it all before, so to speak. Plus, when I seek someone else for something, I'm usually seeking actual help, not just advice.

True true, heh i talked to this guy about a lot of things, inculeding vid games. He just like to talk!

 

[Wildrow12]

Talking to someone, even it is just to vent, has tremendous therapeutic value.

I'm glad you found someone you could chat with, Kimberland. I'm especially glad that it helped you out.

So while in my usuall grumpy moods, my friend recomened someone that if I needed to talk to somone, and to keep it secretive, that I should add, [email protected] , over my msn, aperently he had been talking to this guy for a while. He gose by the name James. So with nothing better to do I added him. And well, I just talked to him. My mood improved and I was a tad bit happier. I dont talk to him much anymore. Now and then. But if you ever need to talk to somone dont be afrade to try this guy. Heh.


Anyways as for the dissusion part, dose talking to somone help you if you have a problem?

 

[Timotei]

Talking to someone who actually listens really helps. That and Bob Marley music.

 

[LilGherkin]

It helps I guess, I'm not one for spilling my beans. If someone wants to talk to me about my issue, they'd have to coerce me into it. That part aside I voted sometimes because if it's over a small issue it makes me grumpier because than evidently people are reading me the wrong way, and I really hate that.

 

[The_Chief]

Im always the guy my friends(which mostly consist of girls, or atleast the people who come to talk to me )come to talk to about what ever. i remember at a dance some girl that i was really good friends tried to get me to make some guy dance with her, so i spent the whole night telling him to. then he told me to go dance with some girl and he would do it, so i danced, and he didn't so i picked him up and placed him. yeaaa anyways i've only talked 3 times before and two of those girls i barely speak to anymore. but it helps.