TheRealCJ said:
Icehearted said:
TheRealCJ said:
Fair enough, I'm white enough that anything I say will be taken out of context (my Mother is a Full-Phillipino, and I've got plenty of her side in me, but I'm still white enough that people don't see it - I look more greek than asian).
I think the skit was in bad taste, and not particularly funny, but that's what you get on a segment like Red's Faces (it's pretty much the equivelent of 'The Gong Show' in the US).
I'm kind of in that same boat too. My father was black, my mother white, which means I get to be both, like it or not. Racism is racism, and if a person says or does something racially offensive it doesn't just upset my "black side" it upsets me altogether. I look French/Italian more than anything, but still get lots of flack for being black.
I find no point in getting offended, especially if it was meant as a serious insult. If it isn't I explain that 'some' people will find it offensive, if it is, well, whatever I say isn't going to sway their opinion.
Sometimes there isn't any choice. I was physically injured by my grandfather because he could not accept my white skin while I was an infant. It's cost me jobs, I have been refused service, and have even been removed from school because of race.
I guess my point is that I agree, there is normally nothing to become offended about, but in cases like mine, because of my history with discrimination, I've got to be guarded, I must be vigilant or I could get hurt again, financially, physically, emotionally.