WHEW! RELATIONSHIPS! YEAH!
So going into a massive discussion with a few friends of mine, I was curious what the Escapist had to say about the matter. What is your opinion on the interaction between two people in a relationship? This specifically is referring to the roles of Dominance and Submissive outside of the bedroom.
For example, I have the strong belief that outside of the bedroom, there should be no dominance in the relationship, but rather both parties taking stepping forward when they need to. I see a relationship as two people working together, and not one taking control. Because of this, one of my main requirements in a partner is for them to be more-or-less independent, or at least capable of holding their own weight.
On the other hand, one of my friends could never take charge in any situation she's given, putting her in the submissive spot in the relationship and being more content in following her partner. I don't think that's wrong, but I personally don't want to drag someone with me, or be dragged myself.
So that's the basic question here, Escapist, what role do you find yourself in, or what kind of relationship would you prefer, I guess?
So going into a massive discussion with a few friends of mine, I was curious what the Escapist had to say about the matter. What is your opinion on the interaction between two people in a relationship? This specifically is referring to the roles of Dominance and Submissive outside of the bedroom.
For example, I have the strong belief that outside of the bedroom, there should be no dominance in the relationship, but rather both parties taking stepping forward when they need to. I see a relationship as two people working together, and not one taking control. Because of this, one of my main requirements in a partner is for them to be more-or-less independent, or at least capable of holding their own weight.
On the other hand, one of my friends could never take charge in any situation she's given, putting her in the submissive spot in the relationship and being more content in following her partner. I don't think that's wrong, but I personally don't want to drag someone with me, or be dragged myself.
So that's the basic question here, Escapist, what role do you find yourself in, or what kind of relationship would you prefer, I guess?