Poll: Try or Not Try?

[Draco Kaiser]

Me and my friend got in a discussion about girls and that he has asked many girls out, but he was rejected. I, on the other hand don't ask girls out since I just like to chill with my friends. Anyways, is it better to ask girls out and get rejected, or not ask them out at all?

 

[MR T3D]

do, or do not.
there is no try.

 

[Draco Kaiser]

do, or do not.
there is no try.

Touche, MR T3D. Touche

 

[SnipErlite]

Go for it.

If you do nothing it's certain you won't go out/get with them, if you ask you have a chance.

 

[j0z]

do, or do not.
there is no try.

Yes, true.
Do it, or do not.

 

[nomadic_chad]

you've gotta try...you never know what you might miss out on if you don't.

 

[atalanta]

Well, it depends. Do you want a girlfriend? Then you're going to have to ask girls out. If you're okay with being single/don't want to date anyone, then don't.

 

[turbo4400]

No point in not trying, in unless you mess it up horribly or your good friends with the girl there really isn't much in the way of long-term embarrassment that can come from it.

 

[Trivun]

If you don't ask girls out you'll never be in a relationship. Believe me, I know. After several rejections I started waiting for girls to come to me, as my grandmother advised me to (she reckoned that the right girl would only turn up as soon as I stop looking...). Needless to say, it didn't work. Recently I started to take a more active approach again, and managed to pull in two seperate bars on two seperate nights within a week of each other. And I feel much happier and much more self-confident now that I'm taking the initiative.

So yeah, ask girls out. Waiting won't get you anywhere. You have to be in it to win it, as the old cliche goes...

 

[God's Clown]

Better to have tried and lost then to not have tried at all, or something.

 

[Igen]

if anything, experence helps, better to ask and have a chance of it working, then never asking and it never working

edit: girls are just as horny as guys, so yes, they want to date just as much if not more then guys do

 

[maddawg IAJI]

It's a matter of opinon based on the person. If the person prefers not to, then not to try is better and vice versa. It's not a matter of public prefrences.

 

[Kaymish]

depending on weather you want to enter a relation ship or not give it a go there is nothing lost in asking a girl out but nothing gained by not

 

[StriderShinryu]

Of course it's worth trying. If, however, you're not into the idea of a relationship anyway then there's no point in asking because your heart (and your head) won't be in it.

 

[Assassin Xaero]

If you don't try, you'll never know...

 

[heyheysg]

1) Do or Do not, there is no fries.

2) Depends on what you want, and if you are a guy, you'll want girls.

a) Friend asks out 100 girls, 1 girl says yes. Friend has 1 girls
b) You ask out 0 girls, 0 girls say yes. You have 0 girls

 

[TheDrunkNinja]

do, or do not.
there is no try.

Ha, ten bucks says you didn't even read the poll before posting, based solely on the title.

 

[socialtangent]

To be totally cliche...

It's better to love and have lost, than never to have loved at all.

So, go for it.

 

[MimsySnark]

Um, why is "gay" one of the options in your poll? That's in no way relevant to your general question about whether to ask out someone you're interested in.

On-topic: If you're at all interested in going out with girls, then you sure as hell need to ask them out! But, if it's not important to you, well then it's a moot point, anyway.

 

[Loop Stricken]

Do it.
I didn't and regret it ever since.