Poll: Um...Would this be creepy?
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Depending on the location I'm walking on, mainly if I'm alone or somewhere with some people in sight (yeah depend if it was s genuie thing or someone is trying to kidnap me).
Ehhhh it depends on a variety of factors.
If someone just parks next to me and goes "Hey studly, wanna play hide the bratwurst?" I would end that conversation as non-awkardly as humanly possible and then get hightail out of there.
Now if it was natural, someone driving up to me and asking for directions and then puts on the charm once she sees me for the hot stuff I am then maybe. Still an odd situation though.
But I'm in Sweden, and while our "reservedness" is often exaggerated, there are places here where trying to do some small talk at the bus stop makes people think you're a soviet spy.
If you're from a culture where going to the grocery store consists of youths screaming "Ey mamasita! Show em titties!" at you a million times (and that's if you're a dude) then maybe you'll have better luck.
If someone just parks next to me and goes "Hey studly, wanna play hide the bratwurst?" I would end that conversation as non-awkardly as humanly possible and then get hightail out of there.
Now if it was natural, someone driving up to me and asking for directions and then puts on the charm once she sees me for the hot stuff I am then maybe. Still an odd situation though.
But I'm in Sweden, and while our "reservedness" is often exaggerated, there are places here where trying to do some small talk at the bus stop makes people think you're a soviet spy.
If you're from a culture where going to the grocery store consists of youths screaming "Ey mamasita! Show em titties!" at you a million times (and that's if you're a dude) then maybe you'll have better luck.
Sort of this. Does that make me shallow?smithy_2045 said:
Besides, I'm naturally suspicious of everyone anyway. Meet someone over the internet? They want to harvest my organs.
Nothing after two years? They're playing the long game, building up my trust and eroding my suspicion, but I'll not be fooled!
Five years?
... very long game. They must be super serious. Better suspect the fuck outta them.
I don't care what they look like, if they are hot or have confidence... it's always creepy. I would honestly be scared out of my mind. I get scared enough when people at bus stops ask if I have change. It screams "I'm going to get you into my car and assault you". Not only that but if I'm walking somewhere I don't want to be bothered, I only go outside to get shit done. Anyone thinking them wanting to try and pick me up *ON THE SIDE OF THE ROAD* is more important than my business is obnoxious and probably full of themselves.
Ninja'd. HYNEDAMMNIT!!!!!A Smooth Criminal said:
Seriously, I'd be polite (it always pays to be polite to randomers, especially potential nutters you encounter!), but quietly freaked out. And no way in hell would I be giving out my (real) name/number.
You just won the thread, I think.BlazeRaider said:
Anyway, yeah I'd be creeped out. Flattered a little bit, maybe. But most definitely creeped out.
This would be my thoughts too. It'd be sketchy, but if the girl was truthfully serious, I'd find it seriously flattering.Keoul said:
But the odds of her being serious and not just acting on a dare are slim-to-none.
I'd roll with it just to see where it leads.
If an attractive woman did it, I would be a tad suspicious, but it wouldn't concern me too much.
If a guy did it, I would find it creepy, but if he acted nice enough, I might trade numbers.
If a guy did it, I would find it creepy, but if he acted nice enough, I might trade numbers.
Well, that depends on if the person turns out to be a huge nerd or not.
If not, I'd find it highly suspicious. But if it's because the person noticed my Doctor Who shirt or something, that's fine.
Have we really gotten to the point where noticing someone interesting-looking and deciding to talk to them is considered creepy?
If not, I'd find it highly suspicious. But if it's because the person noticed my Doctor Who shirt or something, that's fine.
Have we really gotten to the point where noticing someone interesting-looking and deciding to talk to them is considered creepy?
If it was a stranger, absolutely I'd be creeped out. A random woman suddenly pulling up to me, getting out, and spontaneously flirting/asking me out. Seems legit.
If they were someone I already knew I'd find it pretty awkward and quite rude as well. I sure as hell wouldn't accept. I don't know what I would do, probably just ask them to leave me alone.
I've been diagnosed with severe social phobia though so I'm probably not the best person to ask. But the way I see it nothing good can come of this.
If they were someone I already knew I'd find it pretty awkward and quite rude as well. I sure as hell wouldn't accept. I don't know what I would do, probably just ask them to leave me alone.
I've been diagnosed with severe social phobia though so I'm probably not the best person to ask. But the way I see it nothing good can come of this.
Yes, it would be creepy. I did think about it once, I was driving down the road and saw this cute girl with pink hair walking down the road and I thought about pulling over, but then I thought about how creepy it would be and that my car is really shitty.
Considering the fact that this is about someone pulling their car over to flirt or converse, then I don't think it's that out-there for people to consider that creepy. Not everyone is social, some people have severe social phobias/problems. You can't just assume everyone is open to conversation just because you think they seem interesting. This is really only concerning the pulling the car over issue though.JediMB said:
If a dude is interested in talking to me because I wear videogame shirts that's totally fine and I will talk back if I'm not busy. It's really situational though. No one is obligated to engage in conversation with another person just because the OTHER thinks they are soulmates or thinks they are hot or what not.
Really though, I think it's just best NOT to pull your car over. But hey that's just coming from a girl that gets followed home by guys in their cars(them INCHING along on the side for bikers) yelling at me to "get in". Ignoring doesn't make them go away, telling them no doesn't make them go away. So now when cars pull over next to me I have panic attacks and end up running home crying. Doesn't matter the intent.