I think it depends on who said what. I mostly never care what someone says especially if its just a stranger or someone at school or work or even family. But there have been a few times and its usually when it's someone I care about or I'm real close to.
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Most of the time I laugh at it. Years or chavs that are all words no actions does that. It's funny because when one of them actually tried attacking me I actually owned the shit out of him and he went running to his girlfriend. Gotta love chavs.
So what you are saying that there is no psychological repercussion for the words that people speak to each other, and in this case the words of family members? I was never saying that words "will destroy me as a person", but words will have a sustained effect if they are chosen right and said by the person who means most to you. As to the coddling part, maybe you are right, but having someone who is nice to you is not something that is bad, or should be looked down upon.lemiel14n3 said:
I may seem like an idiot asking this, but what is a "chav"?baddude1337 said:
EDIT: Shit, double post.
I am not affected by words anymore, they are just words. Sadly, because of this I hurt others because I do not realize they can even start crying about something. I used to cry and get hurt as a little kid when my dad got angry (when he gets angry, he really gets angry). Nowadays I am just angered by that.
same.....ive played WoW for 6 years and delt with trolls who could make people cry in under 400 words.....but yeah i can do it too now so its all good...but sometimes...i just crash...no one has to even say anything to me and i will just crash. Happened yesterday and the day before...thank god for the 2 friends i have left...we went out and had fun...im back at 60ish %Danzaivar said:The angrier and more serious a discussion gets, the less I'm able to take it seriously. At the point insults get thrown I'm just having too much fun to care.
Which is probably a defence mechanism from some repressed event I can't recall, but hey! Beats getting all sad like some of you guys.
I had that exact thing said to me to!Aylaine said:Someone told me once that I was worthless and never going to amount to anything because I was depressed at the time and couldn't/had great difficulty sorting my life and feelings out. This was in school though, but it was still the meanest thing anyone has ever said to me. :xSexy Street said:I have recently been thinking about the mean things people will say to get you riled up, or feel hurt. So maybe some group therapy will be good to the soul. So, what is the meanest thing someone has said to you?
I think the meanest thing someone has said to me was "You disgust me". It was my dad and he was yelling at me over the two C's I had just gotten
Mine was from my Mum for the same reason.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/ChavSexy Street said:
But most of them are just wordy and actually wimps, which is the funny thing.
I was once told I did not have a father (my parents are divorced and custody went to my mother).
The only thing that saved her was the fact she was four years old at the time.
Aside from that, people trying to insult my character simply make me laugh.
The only thing that saved her was the fact she was four years old at the time.
Aside from that, people trying to insult my character simply make me laugh.
hahaha I got a cracker of a line from a female friend once "Everyone didn't like you cause they couldn't hurt you!" - Which one has to assume meant, that if my so called friends could hurt me they would have hahaha, lovely childhood! oh yeah added context: I'm a severe Haemophiliac, so thats why they couldn't beat me, the whole "uncontrollable life threatening disease" thing, my apologies me old mates.
Well it doesn't matter because you don't have to prove anything to anyone but yourself.Aylaine said:Someone told me once that I was worthless and never going to amount to anything because I was depressed at the time and couldn't/had great difficulty sorting my life and feelings out. This was in school though, but it was still the meanest thing anyone has ever said to me. :xSexy Street said:I have recently been thinking about the mean things people will say to get you riled up, or feel hurt. So maybe some group therapy will be good to the soul. So, what is the meanest thing someone has said to you?
I think the meanest thing someone has said to me was "You disgust me". It was my dad and he was yelling at me over the two C's I had just gotten
Sir, you are not adequaly prepared for the internet.Phlakes said:
Depends on the person really. Only 2 people affect me badly with their words. One because of their close relation to me and the other because I believe she's rotten inside so I find myself aghast at the kind of things that person can say sometimes.
Other than that, I'm a pretty upbeat person. I'm stern and what not but I usually don't let myself be affected too much. Unless my body does it without my permisions, agh.
Personally I'm quite manic when it comes to words.Sometimes they pass through, sometimes they knock me down.
There are a couple of things that really make me feel angry/horrified/insecure, but I never tell them to anyone in case they decide to use them.
I also get pretty annoyed when my dad tells me that "pointless, babyish things like computer games and the Escapist will never be a part of my adult life".
I also get pretty annoyed when my dad tells me that "pointless, babyish things like computer games and the Escapist will never be a part of my adult life".