ok, i've read a few pages, but don't want to read 22 so here goes.
one of my frat brothers had a circumcision in his 20s and from what i've heard from him, he wish he hadn't. frankly, it hurts as there is no longer skin keeping the head of the penis from rubbing inside his pants and the desensitization that needs to happen takes time.
and as someone who is uncircumcised, you can cut off my skin only if i'm dead or i can't pee through the hole anymore. yes it needs to be cleaned, but no more often than other more disgusting parts of the human body and just as often as someone who is circumcised. i've never had problems cleaning it in the shower, just pull it back, wash, rinse and done.
i guess some women have a problem with the extra skin, but that's because of culture, not an inherent problem because i'm sure oral sex has existed long before circumcision. and from my experience in the end women don't really mind and ones that are hung up on it aren't worth the time anyway. i mean, do you have a problem with labias? not to mention that evolution gave us foreskin for a reason - for protection of the most sensitive area of skin on the body.
i'd never do it to my children. it is totally unnecessary.