allright well. right now i have started smoking, i start getting realy bad grades in school.
and i have a lot of fight with my mom. and not the kind of fights that everyone has\had, but the realy bad ones. the ones that my mom starts yelling that maybe i shud go live with my dad and stuff. does anybody else have had this kind of periods???
First, smoking doesn't make you stupid (and thus get bad grades). Being stupid causes you to start smoking.
I think you should try to smooth things out with your mum for starters. Everyone has rough patches where they fight with their parents.
Also, you're 20 going on 21 (if my math is correct). You may as well move out and live by yourself so you don't have to put up with any sort of crap.
allright well. right now i have started smoking, i start getting realy bad grades in school.
and i have a lot of fight with my mom. and not the kind of fights that everyone has\had, but the realy bad ones. the ones that my mom starts yelling that maybe i shud go live with my dad and stuff. does anybody else have had this kind of periods???
I believe you might find the recent dip in your grades is more likely to be connected to the stress of what has been happening at home rather than smoking. Smoking to me seems like your way of coping with the situation, as the cigarettes are relaxing you.
If you're having problems at home, especially with a parent you really need to start thinking about getting some proper help, not just the opinion of people on the internet. I assume your school will have a councilor which would be a good place to start, so if things are getting bad try looking there first.
By making this poll you seem to be attempting to normalise your problems, which is never a good thing as it gives you justification for not fixing them. If you really are having these problems and they are s frequent as you seem to imply then I agree with this:
Inverse Skies said:
I believe you might find the recent dip in your grades is more likely to be connected to the stress of what has been happening at home rather than smoking. Smoking to me seems like your way of coping with the situation, as the cigarettes are relaxing you.
If you're having problems at home, especially with a parent you really need to start thinking about getting some proper help, not just the opinion of people on the internet. I assume your school will have a councilor which would be a good place to start, so if things are getting bad try looking there first.
most of people have those kind of period in their life. mine last 5 years and was pretty extreme. But you will get over it eventually. you're only 15, it's normal...
Allright, well. Right now I have started smoking, and Ihave started getting really bad grades in school. andI have had a lot of fights with my mom. and not the kind of fights that everyone has, but the really bad ones, the ones that where my mom starts yelling that maybe Ishudshould go live with my dad and stuff. Does anybody else have had these kind of periods?
1. Don't start sentences with 'and'.
2. Remember the capitol letters at the beginning of sentences.
I thought you crazy people were good at languages?
Now, on topic:
1.Why the hell did you start smoking? Seriously? It's a huge money drain. There's a dozen reasons everyone has a go at you about it. If it's weed you're talking about, well, It'll make you lazy, basically. It's so much easier to just roll another than go and do some actual work.
2.Yes, I got addicted to a game when I was 14 and I've still not really recovered 2 years later. I learnt from it that I can basically do no homework and still get average grades. I still do that sometimes, but I'm getting better.
Identify what it is doing wrong to your life, and try harder to fix those things, or simply stop smoking. Unless you're too lazy to do either of these things, in which case you'd be screwed anyway.
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