Poll: What should I do?

[Good morning blues]

This is retarded. Your OP implies that you haven't even spoken to her about it. Am I reading it wrong, or are you really missing that step?

No we have done somethings but we really have done much more then a bit of "hand use" And we have talked about sex befor but that may have been a bout a month ago. And that ended with use stop talking, then started talking about somthing different

...So your answer is that no, you haven't spoken with her about it at all. Unless she said that she doesn't want to have sex when you spoke bout a month ago ? and it certainly doesn't sound like you had a complete conversation to me ? you don't have a problem at all. So, here's the non-solution to your non-problem: wait for a good opportunity (this means that you're alone and you're not busy talking about something else, not that the conversation naturally flows toward sex, which from the sounds of it will never happen ? actually, a good opportunity is in the middle of a bit of "hand use") and tell her you want to have sex with her and ask how she feels about it. Maybe she'll say yes. Maybe she'll say not yet. Or maybe she'll say never. No matter what, you'll know where you stand.

Would have to say?
The way of love is not done by guessing, nor unsecureness.

Despite what decades of romantic comedies have told you, true love does not mean that you are able to see into the future and know what you want to do without uncertainty. If someone waits until they have no doubts before they make a decision, they will wait until they are dead.

 

[q12345678901234567890]

...So your answer is that no, you haven't spoken with her about it at all. Unless she said that she doesn't want to have sex when you spoke bout a month ago ? and it certainly doesn't sound like you had a complete conversation to me ? you don't have a problem at all. So, here's the non-solution to your non-problem: wait for a good opportunity (this means that you're alone and you're not busy talking about something else, not that the conversation naturally flows toward sex, which from the sounds of it will never happen ? actually, a good opportunity is in the middle of a bit of "hand use") and tell her you want to have sex with her and ask how she feels about it. Maybe she'll say yes. Maybe she'll say not yet. Or maybe she'll say never. No matter what, you'll know where you stand.

No i see what your saying, and i will try that. Thank you

 

[superbatranger]

Let the relationship take it's natural course. If you try to rush it, it might not be as enjoyable for you and her.

 

[s0denone]

"Should I ask?"
Seriously?
Yes, I approve.
"So honey, I was wondering if we could have sex soon, seeing as I want to cement our relationship. I want to share the most intimate of times with you, because I feel we are ready for that next level. I really digg you, babe, you make me horny as fuck"

Or...

You could just get her to come over, cook for her(If you can cook. Else order something in) pop in a romantic comedy like The Notebook or some shit, and start making out. Remind her about stuff like "That reminds me of how I feel about you" or "I can totally relate to that, since I am so desperately in love with you"

You will soon get to second base, and then just push onwards.

EDIT:

This is retarded. Your OP implies that you haven't even spoken to her about it. Am I reading it wrong, or are you really missing that step?

Wait for her to bring it up ad don't force the issue and if you leave her just for not putting out I may have to hunt you down and beat your ass for being a pig.

NOTE: Even if I did find you some how the chances of me being able to beat your ass are slim unless you are an awkward stick figure who crumbles in light breezes..

Awesome, so as a man the only way to avoid "being a pig" is to completely surrender any influence you may have had over your own sex life?

Nobody is under any obligation to have sex with anyone else, but nor are they under any obligation to stay in a relationship they don't find sexually fulfilling.

I feel like adding this, just to comment that the poster is right and I would use the "like" button, had there been one. Good morning blues is awarded one point from here. +1.

 

[Shru1kan]

So i am back, you might rember me from the topic on witch girl to chose. But i need help again.
So i have been going out with this girl for about 3months now, and we havent done much, but i feel like we should do more. Shes 18 and i am 17. PA's laws for sex are 16. Should i just wait or should i ask? I know she will stay with me no matte what i do, but i really dont want to piss her off. So can i get some help?

It really should just be natural. As in things will go further than kissing on their own. Once you both are in the mood, it'll just get heavier and heavier until... well you know.

And remember, no means no. Seems to be a thing people forget. Just because she's horny doesn't mean she wants to ride you raw.

 

[q12345678901234567890]

So i am back, you might rember me from the topic on witch girl to chose. But i need help again.
So i have been going out with this girl for about 3months now, and we havent done much, but i feel like we should do more. Shes 18 and i am 17. PA's laws for sex are 16. Should i just wait or should i ask? I know she will stay with me no matte what i do, but i really dont want to piss her off. So can i get some help?

It really should just be natural. As in things will go further than kissing on their own. Once you both are in the mood, it'll just get heavier and heavier until... well you know.

And remember, no means no. Seems to be a thing people forget. Just because she's horny doesn't mean she wants to ride you raw.

asdasdasdasda

 

[darkless]

This is retarded. Your OP implies that you haven't even spoken to her about it. Am I reading it wrong, or are you really missing that step?

Wait for her to bring it up ad don't force the issue and if you leave her just for not putting out I may have to hunt you down and beat your ass for being a pig.

NOTE: Even if I did find you some how the chances of me being able to beat your ass are slim unless you are an awkward stick figure who crumbles in light breezes..

Awesome, so as a man the only way to avoid "being a pig" is to completely surrender any influence you may have had over your own sex life?

Nobody is under any obligation to have sex with anyone else, but nor are they under any obligation to stay in a relationship they don't find sexually fulfilling.

Sorry should have phrased that better I meant that if she asked him to wait and he left her for it I would do the aforementioned ass kicking.

 

[s0denone]

So i am back, you might rember me from the topic on witch girl to chose. But i need help again.
So i have been going out with this girl for about 3months now, and we havent done much, but i feel like we should do more. Shes 18 and i am 17. PA's laws for sex are 16. Should i just wait or should i ask? I know she will stay with me no matte what i do, but i really dont want to piss her off. So can i get some help?

It really should just be natural. As in things will go further than kissing on their own. Once you both are in the mood, it'll just get heavier and heavier until... well you know.

And remember, no means no. Seems to be a thing people forget. Just because she's horny doesn't mean she wants to ride you raw.

No i know that, i told her that i would stop. Because i care about her, and its so wrong to rape a girl

Even I got reeled in(somewhat) - and that is just plain embarrassing.

Let's see how many more views and responses you can get here, trollboy-o.

This is retarded. Your OP implies that you haven't even spoken to her about it. Am I reading it wrong, or are you really missing that step?

Wait for her to bring it up ad don't force the issue and if you leave her just for not putting out I may have to hunt you down and beat your ass for being a pig.

NOTE: Even if I did find you some how the chances of me being able to beat your ass are slim unless you are an awkward stick figure who crumbles in light breezes..

Awesome, so as a man the only way to avoid "being a pig" is to completely surrender any influence you may have had over your own sex life?

Nobody is under any obligation to have sex with anyone else, but nor are they under any obligation to stay in a relationship they don't find sexually fulfilling.

Sorry should have phrased that better I meant that if she asked him to wait and he left her for it I would do the aforementioned ass kicking.

How is that any different from your first phrasing?

A person should be free to want what they want from a relationship, and find another partner if not fulfilled. To most people, part of a relationship is sex and therefor people will want, and expect, to be able to get sex while in a relationship.
Be serious - who, above the age of maybe 15, is in a relationship without sex?

 

[PrimoThePro]

Should i just wait or should i ask?

Well depends. Can you imagine spending your life with this girl? Then I say wait. If you cannot, go for it. I did it with the girl I thought I wanted to spend the rest of my life with, and it ended a year later, thanks to boredom. We were just... bored of each other.

 

[q12345678901234567890]

So i am back, you might rember me from the topic on witch girl to chose. But i need help again.
So i have been going out with this girl for about 3months now, and we havent done much, but i feel like we should do more. Shes 18 and i am 17. PA's laws for sex are 16. Should i just wait or should i ask? I know she will stay with me no matte what i do, but i really dont want to piss her off. So can i get some help?

It really should just be natural. As in things will go further than kissing on their own. Once you both are in the mood, it'll just get heavier and heavier until... well you know.

And remember, no means no. Seems to be a thing people forget. Just because she's horny doesn't mean she wants to ride you raw.

No i know that, i told her that i would stop. Because i care about her, and its so wrong to rape a girl

Even I got reeled in(somewhat) - and that is just plain embarrassing.

Let's see how many more views and responses you can get here, trollboy-o.

sadasdasda

 

[darkless]

So i am back, you might rember me from the topic on witch girl to chose. But i need help again.
So i have been going out with this girl for about 3months now, and we havent done much, but i feel like we should do more. Shes 18 and i am 17. PA's laws for sex are 16. Should i just wait or should i ask? I know she will stay with me no matte what i do, but i really dont want to piss her off. So can i get some help?

It really should just be natural. As in things will go further than kissing on their own. Once you both are in the mood, it'll just get heavier and heavier until... well you know.

And remember, no means no. Seems to be a thing people forget. Just because she's horny doesn't mean she wants to ride you raw.

No i know that, i told her that i would stop. Because i care about her, and its so wrong to rape a girl

Even I got reeled in(somewhat) - and that is just plain embarrassing.

Let's see how many more views and responses you can get here, trollboy-o.

This is retarded. Your OP implies that you haven't even spoken to her about it. Am I reading it wrong, or are you really missing that step?

Wait for her to bring it up ad don't force the issue and if you leave her just for not putting out I may have to hunt you down and beat your ass for being a pig.

NOTE: Even if I did find you some how the chances of me being able to beat your ass are slim unless you are an awkward stick figure who crumbles in light breezes..

Awesome, so as a man the only way to avoid "being a pig" is to completely surrender any influence you may have had over your own sex life?

Nobody is under any obligation to have sex with anyone else, but nor are they under any obligation to stay in a relationship they don't find sexually fulfilling.

Sorry should have phrased that better I meant that if she asked him to wait and he left her for it I would do the aforementioned ass kicking.

How is that any different from your first phrasing?

A person should be free to want what they want from a relationship, and find another partner if not fulfilled. To most people, part of a relationship is sex and therefor people will want, and expect, to be able to get sex while in a relationship.
Be serious - who, above the age of maybe 15, is in a relationship without sex?

If you care about someone as much as OP claims to you dont just dump them at the first sign they don't want exactly what you want, when you want it, patience is a virtue.

And to answer your question, Me.

 

[q12345678901234567890]

Should i just wait or should i ask?

Well depends. Can you imagine spending your life with this girl? Then I say wait. If you cannot, go for it. I did it with the girl I thought I wanted to spend the rest of my life with, and it ended a year later, thanks to boredom. We were just... bored of each other.

fasfdadas

 

[s0denone]

Are you caling me a troll? See if i was one, iwould have gone to 4chan for help. But i went to a place full of smart people, not trolls

Well aren't you just a model citizen!?
Seriously though, this is just becoming rather funny. What is with that? "But i want to a place full of smart people, not trolls"
So you, as a troll, thinks not to try to troll the trolls, but rather the "smart people"? What?

You're purposefully not making sense here, troll-boy.

If you care about someone as much as OP claims to you dont just dump them at the first sign they don't want exactly what you want, when you want it, patience is a virtue.

And to answer your question, Me.

Sex isn't special anymore. It's fun and good times.
Nobody saves themselves for marriage.
"I am not ready"... Then get ready fast, seriously

I can understand having patience, when you really care for somebody, but then that somebody should try satisfying your needs regardless, as they should care as much for you.

The best, along with being the most meaningfull, experience of a relationship is the sex - as with anything. Who doesn't want it?

Tell me, if it isn't too personal of a question, why you are not "putting out"? Or, if you a boy, why on earth you are the only one without a sexdrive?

 

[Urgh76]

Just wait dude. Dont rush it, you'll know

 

[q12345678901234567890]

Are you caling me a troll? See if i was one, iwould have gone to 4chan for help. But i went to a place full of smart people, not trolls

Well aren't you just a model citizen!?
Seriously though, this is just becoming rather funny. What is with that? "But i want to a place full of smart people, not trolls"
So you, as a troll, thinks not to try to troll the trolls, but rather the "smart people"? What?

You're purposefully not making sense here, troll-boy.

gfdzgzfgsfdg

 

[darkless]

If you care about someone as much as OP claims to you dont just dump them at the first sign they don't want exactly what you want, when you want it, patience is a virtue.

And to answer your question, Me.

Sex isn't special anymore. It's fun and good times.
Nobody saves themselves for marriage.
"I am not ready"... Then get ready fast, seriously

I can understand having patience, when you really care for somebody, but then that somebody should try satisfying your needs regardless, as they should care as much for you.

The best, along with being the most meaningfull, experience of a relationship is the sex - as with anything. Who doesn't want it?

Tell me, if it isn't too personal of a question, why you are not "putting out"? Or, if you a boy, why on earth you are the only one without a sexdrive?

Just because you are emotionally ready doesn't mean they are deal with and don't expect them to just spread there legs because it's what you want.

I'm a man and I do have a sex drive, it's called patience when she's ready she will let it be known and not before and I wont force the issue because I care.

 

[PrimoThePro]

Well i can see my self being with her forever and ever, but the thing is, its not set in stone, so anything can happen

See, you're at the exact same spot I was at! Now, if you can see it, that's pretty good. Do you want it to last forever? Answer that for yourself. If you do want it, and you know you want her to be with you forever, than I say don't go for it, and let the relationship take it's course. If you don't want to be with her forever, or if you even feel the slightest bit apprehensive about life with her, than I suggest enjoy the relationship while it lasts. And I do mean enjoy it.

 

[s0denone]

Just because you are emotionally ready doesn't mean they are deal with and don't expect them to just spread there legs because it's what you want.

I'm a man and I do have a sex drive, it's called patience when she's ready she will let it be known and not before and I wont force the issue because I care.

While there is the personal variable, obviously, I would expect to get action before 3 months have passed, which is the case with the OP.

Sex is legal for their age, so I don't see the problem at all.

I'm not saying sex is mandatory on the first date... But I am saying it should be getting close* on the third/fourth.

*should be happening.

 

[q12345678901234567890]

If you care about someone as much as OP claims to you dont just dump them at the first sign they don't want exactly what you want, when you want it, patience is a virtue.

And to answer your question, Me.

Sex isn't special anymore. It's fun and good times.
Nobody saves themselves for marriage.
"I am not ready"... Then get ready fast, seriously

I can understand having patience, when you really care for somebody, but then that somebody should try satisfying your needs regardless, as they should care as much for you.

The best, along with being the most meaningfull, experience of a relationship is the sex - as with anything. Who doesn't want it?

Tell me, if it isn't too personal of a question, why you are not "putting out"? Or, if you a boy, why on earth you are the only one without a sexdrive?

Just because you are emotionally ready doesn't mean they are deal with and don't expect them to just spread there legs because it's what you want.

I'm a man and I do have a sex drive, it's called patience when she's ready she will let it be known and not before and I wont force the issue because I care.

sdffsdfsdfs

 

[darkless]

Just because you are emotionally ready doesn't mean they are deal with and don't expect them to just spread there legs because it's what you want.

I'm a man and I do have a sex drive, it's called patience when she's ready she will let it be known and not before and I wont force the issue because I care.

While there is the personal variable, obviously, I would expect to get action before 3 months have passed, which is the case with the OP.

Sex is legal for their age, so I don't see the problem at all.

I'm not saying sex is mandatory on the first date... But I am saying it should be getting close* on the third/fourth.

*should be happening.

So regardless oh you felt about the person you would leave them if they hadn't sex with you after say 4 or 5 months? and you think that's acceptable behavior?