Poll: Where should I move?

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tehweave

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Come late July I will have to leave the place I am currently leasing with four other people. I have a roommate who wants to move into an apartment with me, and parents who want me to move back with them. Here's the facts:

1. I am a college student. I have two (ish) more semesters at school until I finish. I am able to pay for tuition with student loans.
2. I have a girlfriend. Although she would not mind if I moved into my parents place, she said we wouldn't be able to sleep together over there. Only at her place.
3. I have a part time job during the semester, which rolls into full time over the summer. I've found ways to balance my money pretty well since last year.
4. I really like my current roommate, and he's interested in doing film and video (like I am) but if he doesn't move in with me, he'll be forced to move back with his dad, (Who will make him pay rent.) and he lives a whole town away. I won't really see him anymore.
5. My parents want to make it easy for me, and won't charge me anything, and my mother claims she won't pester me like she did in high school. Plus, she says she will help pay for tuition. (Which I'm not sure about. She and my dad don't have too much money to throw around.)
6. Me and my roommate have found a place that is really cheap (cheaper than our current place), allows pets (he has a dog), and will be available around the time we need to move out.

So the choice is simple. I choose either the apartment, have total freedom, but still costs me several hundred a month, or choose to live with my parents, no charge, but it limits where me and my GF can hang out and I won't see my roommate anymore.

So what do you think? Given the situation would you go for no cost or no restrictions? (Basically, safety versus freedom.)
 

Ham_authority95

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I would suggest getting that apartment.

Even if you can't pay all the rent, you and your roommate can still split it 50/50 between you two.

but that's just what I would do given that situation.
 

thylasos

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Apartment'll work out nice, especially if you can find bar work or something, speaking from personal experience.
 

Caligulove

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If you have a girlfriend, own place.

She might say that she would be okay with you moving in with your parents again... but that would only last so long, not to mention has many drawbacks for fun with your partner. Its better to have the same freedoms, when it comes to living areas, as your partner in a relationship.
 

qazmatoz

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Get the apartment and consider the rent a "personal freedoms tax."

Also, living at home while in college and having a girlfriend suuuucks. I'd move out as soon as possible if I could only get a job. Sigh...
 

DoctorNick

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If you can afford it always go with the apartment.

Then again to be fair I'm not exactly a balanced source considering that I'd pretty much have to be living on the streets, sleeping under a highway overpass each night and puking up the MD 20/20 [http://www.bumwine.com/md2020.html] I drank too much of every day before I'd consider it desirable to move in with either of my parents.