Four things:Darken12 said:All this is a consequence of arbitrary social mores. Men get stressed out or make risky decisions when women are in danger because society keeps insisting that women are helpless and fragile and need to be protected by men. This is patently false, but it shows up everywhere all the same.
Similarly, only 1% of women fit current male standards because we, as a society, insist that women must be thin, willowy and that anything that would give them physical strength (such as fat and muscle) are terribly undesirable. When it becomes socially desirable for women to have muscles (just like men), we'll start to see that 1% becoming 100%. And likewise, the bit about women needing more provocation and fearing the consequences of aggression have to do with the fact that women are socialised to be demure and quiet, and traits such as loudness, aggression and assertiveness are discouraged in them. Furthermore, women learn to avoid confrontational attitudes and play peacekeepers with men, something that wouldn't be necessary if they were socialised to be aggressive and value physical strength (just like men are socialised).
In short, change current societal mores and this problem disappears.
1. I've grown up with the girls forever kicking my ass, standing up for themselves, helping out other people in trouble, and generally being the exact opposite of what I'm told is societal norm, and in the various entertainments I consume, there's far more emphasis on female badasses (Tomb Raider was a childhood staple, and pretty much every sitcom relies on incompetent men and patient, competent females, etc).
And yet, when I see a woman in a crisis of any kind, even when I know she's more than capable of dealing with it, I get a primal "Help her out" instinct, against all logic.
Consider that genetics might have a role.
2. It said 1% of female SOLDIERS. As in, NOT willowy wisps. In fact, they probably all could kick your ass so hard that you'd lose it, and they're probably proud of it. Yet it's not enough to reach the level needed for frontline combat, and that's due to a simple scientifically backed fact that women develop muscle more slowly than men and have a harder time shedding fat.
3. If you think that women with muscle isn't fashionable, you've clearly missed the boat. Health magazines are dropping "lose fat" articles and replacing them with "get stronger" articles left and right.
4. I've NEVER seen those social traits all bred into people with any consistency. If anything, "be aggressive" is pounded into women constantly (ever read a Women's World magazine or any self-help books?) and men are increasingly often being told to tone aggression down.
Overall, I find your post cliche and misguided.