As long as you make it clear that kind of choice is the characters call not the players then it's all cool.
Obviously some people will get pissy because it's not the Disney prince/princess principle or it hits too close to home but that is just how creation works, you can't make everyone happy and if you try the work will suffer for it.
Obviously some people will get pissy because it's not the Disney prince/princess principle or it hits too close to home but that is just how creation works, you can't make everyone happy and if you try the work will suffer for it.