Scenario: One of your friends is going to commit suicide. You are not talking them out of it. Nothing you say or do will stop their self-inflicted death. They are going to die by their own hand. So, here's the question; would you rather talk to them one last time, knowing full well that when you say good bye, it's forever, or would you rather not know at all, and find out from some other source after they've done it (obituary, suicide note, friend of their family, etc.)
For myself, as sad as it would be, i'd rather have that last chance to talk, to hang out, to ask why and get an answer. Going about my day and finding out at random that they were dead would make a tragic situation worse, since I wouldn't be ready for it, and would never really know why. At least with the last talk, I'd know there was nothing I could do. It wouldn't be much, but I think it would beat always wondering "what if?". How about you folks?
For myself, as sad as it would be, i'd rather have that last chance to talk, to hang out, to ask why and get an answer. Going about my day and finding out at random that they were dead would make a tragic situation worse, since I wouldn't be ready for it, and would never really know why. At least with the last talk, I'd know there was nothing I could do. It wouldn't be much, but I think it would beat always wondering "what if?". How about you folks?