Well first thing I would do is obviously mess around with it and then do whatever possible to change back afterwards.
That's a definite problem, and one which can't be conclusively answered. Unfortunately, there's no information about what kind of problem transsexualism actually is. There's some very limited research that provides certain clues, but most of it is just conjecture and speculation.zelda2fanboy said:It also seems probable that the desire to change one's sex might stem from other psychological issues and not just a completely isolated motivation hidden deep within the brain. Again, I'm talking out of my ass on this one.Very well said. I feel like I've got a slightly different perception of things. Nicely done. I don't feel we should "force" people into any way of living when they aren't hurting anyone. It seems (to me) that when somebody goes to a therapist and tells them that they really want to hurt themselves and that the recommendation is that they actually do so, that seems a little crazy to me. Not that psychiatry / mind altering drugs are the definitive answer (or any answer at all).CrystalShadow said:I've seen this argument/comparison made before, and in a far more derogatory manner.
The problem is, well, treatment. Both surgery, and psychiatric care are a form of medical intervention.
Saying one is better than the other makes a fundamental assertion about which is less dangerous, but also about which is easier to change.
Now, I don't know about you, but I'm pretty uncomfortable with the idea of someone messing with my mind, even if that's technically the part that's faulty. This becomes an even more serious question when the prevailing understanding is that psychiatric treatments don't work for the problem in question. (which has generally been the conclusion for transsexuals).
But surely most the people who know you don't look at your genitalia regularly, so why not just keep it to yourself? They need never know ;-)iLikeHippos said:Well, obviously, I'd be fucked.
Because I would know, whatever the people who know me would say, that they would be creeped out and slowly but surely alienate me from their lives.
So, living as a lone transsexual and most likely be bored by it after a months time, I'd damn well want my sex back; if not to remedy my boredom.
I do not find my own sex to be a defining characteristic, although of the much different chemistry and mind-set, so I wouldn't have too much of a problem with it. Except everything stated above.
That's in theory. I don't know what would ACTUALLY happen. It's like explaining what headline there will be in a weeks time.
See how other things feel XDRanorak said:Wouldn't everyone?DefinitelyPsychotic said:Yeah, me too.Thimblefoot said:Masterbate, see how it feels on the other side.
I mean, the question is what would you do AFTER that.
AKa.... the next month.
I'm confused, what does sex change surgery have to do with gays?zelda2fanboy said:This brings me to my actual topic - sexual reassignment surgery. This is not a flame thread to bash gay people or transexuals.
Few little quibbles I have with this bit; 1: the death rate from gender reassignment surgery is no more than that from any other form of cosmetic surgery i.e. small enough to be statistically irrelevant.zelda2fanboy said:My question is whether or not these people need psychiatric help. It's one thing to prefer another gender identity. It's another thing entirely to cut off your genitals and reshape them into something else. With any surgery, there is risk of death and I would bet the death rate for sexual reassignment surgery is higher than zero.
A common thread among transexuals seems to be that they cannot stand having their genitals. So here's a quick test. Say you're a guy and woke up this morning without a penis, but a vagina. Or a woman who suddenly has a penis now. Would you risk your life with incredibly painful cosmetic surgery or would you find a way to accept your new body and live with it? And any transgender people / healthcare professionals, please feel free to tell me why I'm wrong and and a jerk. This is merely ignorance on my part (I don't know many people in real life) and I would genuinely like to hear differing perspectives.
1. It's not statistically irrelevant to the patients' family and friends, especially if they drop dead. Surgical complications are much more common than you might think.Sgt Doom said:Few little quibbles I have with this bit; 1: the death rate from gender reassignment surgery is no more than that from any other form of cosmetic surgery i.e. small enough to be statistically irrelevant.
2: They are put under anaesthesia before getting their bits snipped; y'know? It's not like they do it the old Navy way i.e. tie 'em down, put a gag in their mouth and start sawing away.
From what I understand, the dilation is also to open the newly created vagina so it will be a suitable size for intercourse. Surgery is very often "barbaric", have you ever seen video of someone getting liposuctioned? It honestly doesn't even look professional.zelda2fanboy said:2. One little tidbit I've read about male to female sex change surgeries is that post op, patients have to keep a dildo in the wound to keep it from healing itself back together again. That doesn't sound barbaric and horrifying enough? That part might be a myth, but imagine the most sensitive area of your body removed, turned inside out, and then sown back on. That might sting for a few days. Skin grafts are among the most painful surgeries and recoveries possible.