Difference being that Sony and the mainstream press have a skewed idea of what hackers do.
Sony had terrible security measures in place, so an attack was bound to happen. Nonetheless, having your own privacy invaded is scary. Amplify that to the size of a company, it becomes downright terrifying.
In that terror, the hackers made a threat. They capitalised on that chaos, and I can't blame Sony for acting this way, but it is irrational. Why? Because they decided to nigh-immediately give in without examining the situation properly first.
For one, they didn't know from where the hackers were based. Threatening someone with 'terrorist' attacks becomes less intimidating if it's on the other side of the world. For two, to plan and enact a terrorist act is something completely different from just hacking into a company's databases. In threatening someone, and a multi-million international media enterprise, you should be damn sure that you would do something when you threaten to cause chaos. Also, in pronouncing the act before enacting it, you are effecitvely giving the other party time enough to call the police and get the feds on you.
To put it simply, if people just kept their shit together, they would've realised that this is bullshit. Nothing more than a feint by North Korea because Sony disrupted their 'cult of personality' bullshit that they have for their tyrants in making The Interview.
So no, this isn't about safety. This isn't about pride either. This is showing solidarity and a cool head, not 'believing in a project despite personal safety', this is about showing that you won't be bullied into submission by something like hacking.