Psychology Help

[Death God]

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So, I was asked a psychology question earlier today, and was asked what my ideal girlfriend/wife would be. Now my answer came in two parts. There are two different types of ideal girls for me. I said that it would have to either be a tall (not as tall as me though), fairly skinny, energetic and party-loving, wild girl or a girl who is quiet and slightly shy, but really caring and loves to laugh. He must have been excepting a different answer because he gave me a quizzical look. So he ask me if I could ask some people what their ideal boyfriend/girlfriend would be. So what better than to ask here. With so many different people and personalities here, it'd be a great place to start. So, my question is, what is your ideal girlfriend/boyfriend? You can be as stereotypical and as long as you want. Just so long as it is your utmost ideal girlfriend/boyfriend.

 

[Kuchinawa212]

Someone that understands me and has similar likes of me. She needs a good sense of humor and someone that respects who I am. Hight, weight so long as she's healthy. Whatever. I care about who they are.

 

[Aqualung]

My ideal boyfriend would have a lot in common with me- broad musical tastes, a big passion for gaming- and not be incredibly smothering. I'd rather have someone who is independent and isn't waiting on me all the time, than a man who is constantly at my doorstep. I like space.

That's it.

 

[aschere van she]

I'll know when i find him/her.

 

[Blindswordmaster]

I'd really just like an attractive woman who I can have fun with. I just want someone who makes me enjoy even life's boring trivial shit, just because I'm with her.

 

[MissGinaKid]

Well since I grew up on fairy tales and damsel in distress storys I've always wanted someone who is strong and protective and is strudy to suport himself and hold the whight of others if only just for a moement to keep them from being overhelmed. Someone who doesn't take anyones shit and is strong enough to fight back when someone does, Mentally and physically.

 

[Guy32]

My ideal girlfriend is a dragon that can shoot laser beams.

 

[xdgt]

Somebody intelligent, who you can talk to for hours on basically any subject and is capable of making the right decisions in life. A bit more vague property would be that she would have to be a good person, someone i could pass my time with for long periods of time with feeling disgusted or uncomfortable on the opposite - being able to have a good time together no matter what we do and generally being able to be proud of her as a person. And last quality is quite superficial, looks - she doesn't have to be the most beautifull woman in the world but if she's ugly as sin i can't picture myself waking up next to her each morning, so if she doesn't raise the urge to puke its fine by me.

 

[khaimera]

So, I was asked a psychology question earlier today, and was asked what my ideal girlfriend/wife would be. Now my answer came in two parts. There are two different types of ideal girls for me. I said that it would have to either be a tall (not as tall as me though), fairly skinny, energetic and party-loving, wild girl or a girl who is quiet and slightly shy, but really caring and loves to laugh. He must have been excepting a different answer because he gave me a quizzical look. So he ask me if I could ask some people what their ideal boyfriend/girlfriend would be. So what better than to ask here. With so many different people and personalities here, it'd be a great place to start. So, my question is, what is your ideal girlfriend/boyfriend? You can be as stereotypical and as long as you want. Just so long as it is your utmost ideal girlfriend/boyfriend.

So you have two opposite ideals? If so, that explains the quizzical look. Two ideals?

Mine would be:

All the same qualities I have, but as an attractive female.

Pychologize that one.

 

[Yureina]

Someone who is similar in interest to me, but also relatively independent. Someone who wants to be together, but is not totally dependent upon that relationship. Basically a friend that I could enjoy being with, and yet not someone who is so dependent upon me that they do not have their own life.

I guess those things are hard to come by, but... I can wait.

 

[dickseverywhere]

 

[Lullabye]

Someone who is similar in interest to me, but also relatively independent. Someone who wants to be together, but is not totally dependent upon that relationship. Basically a friend that I could enjoy being with, and yet not someone who is so dependent upon me that they do not have their own life.

I guess those things are hard to come by, but... I can wait.

Literally exactly what this one said.^

If I can get that out of a relationship, then it really won't matter what you look like.

 

[Lullabye]

*snip*

boy do I have a song for you.

 

[AceDefective]

I found her, Smart, good-looking, and similar interests
I could be myself around her
Problem is I blew my chance... But thats my problem

 

[Lust]

Someone who I like and who likes me for who I am.

Flaws and all......

 

[Decum]

Well, for starters she'd have to be easy on the eyes, i'm not asking for someone on the Megan Fox scale of hottness, just somone who is moderately pretty and cute, like pretty on an average day, mindblowingly beautiful on a special occasion.

As for personality wise she'd have to like games, i don't care what games as long as she likes some of the ones i like, she'd have to be as smart as me aswell(which isn't asking for much, i know what i know), she'd have to know how to convince me to do things i don't want to either or else i'd feel bad asking her to do everything, and most of all she'd have to be very open minded and stick to her morales...

After that i couldn't care if she was flat chested with inverted nipples...

 

[spartan1077]

Someone who is near the same height as me(must be shorter though), as near the same intrests. That's about it. Also doesn't lie to me to not hurt my feelings.

 

[Eumersian]

A few criteria:

1. No STDs (that's a given, at least for me)
2. Independent enough that they don't feel required to interact with me all of the time (I'm a pretty quiet person. It's not because I don't want to talk, it's because I have nothing to say.)
3. Active enough that they still make me do things to help me gain better awareness of differences of culture (whatever that may be)
4. Physically attractive (in one way or another, I can't help it, I'm human)
5. Intelligent, but totally cool if it happens that she knows more about something than me
6. Preferably more artistic (I'm not sure why I like this, I just do)
7. Has significantly different life skills so that we, as a couple, would cover the most ground in terms of skills (like makin' sammiches!)
8. Can take a joke like that and not be offended, as they would understand that it is totally a joke and not my real point of view on the typical skill-set of an average woman.
9. What else?oh yeah! Nice to me. I hate angry people, particularly when they're angry at me.
10. Significantly shorter than me
11. Would gladly watch Star Trek: The Next Generation or Voyager with me when the "mood" strikes.

 

[CarpathianMuffin]

My girlfriend right now is ideal in every way.

She's intelligent, clever, witty, and funny, while liking animu and video games. While all that would make her fantastic already, she's also incredibly gorgeous, especially when she smiles.

So... yeah, all those fit my criteria.