I play music, and people call me a musician for that. I'm not a musician all the time though, and my life isn't defined by playing music. The term musician has been around for a long time though, and the people who define the word can be anything from a classical pianist to a death metal singer. The "gamer" label is still evolving. About 20 years ago, you had "gamers". There were no sub-categories. Today, it has evolved a bit. Now we have casual gamers, hardcore gamers, whiners, griefers, addicted gamers, not to mention FPS/RPG/Puzzle/Etc- gamers. In the future, we will see another change and maybe more sub-categories. When that time comes, the word "gamer" will have the same feel as musician, or reader. There are no longer stereotypes attached.
And let's face it, people love boxes. Even if the word gamer can somehow be forgotten, there will be new labels that will apply to gamers.
And let's face it, people love boxes. Even if the word gamer can somehow be forgotten, there will be new labels that will apply to gamers.