Bonus points if the game's foolish, or makes you feel good, My list of awesome-sauce games I like is...
Minecraft
Xcom (Nothing like a well executed mission.)
Team Fortress (Mrhn-nnph dph ompt, mmh hnggnnh!)
Natural Selection 2 (Okay, I'm commanding. We got this shit.)
Krater
Most importantly, You need to be willing to be appeased. If you continue to think about your situation, you'll still be miserable. But if you focus on your accomplishments in your personal projects (If your not playing games) or your accomplishments in the game (Nothing... Like a well executed mission, Awww, yeah...) you'll continue to be miserable.
EDIT: And don't kid yourself into "I'm a badass, so it must be a violent game with blood and guts!" Play a game where you actually enjoy yourself, additional bonus points if you play with friends, as you know those friends are also having a good time.