Relationships are tough.

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rddj623

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superbatranger said:
It is rough. Sometimes I wonder why I haven't found anyone yet, and about what could be wrong with me. Then I remember that this is life, and it's not perfect.
Unfortunately. Took me 22 years before I had a girlfriend, and the first one ended mutually when we discovered we both would make just better friends then a romantic relationship. Then my second girlfriend was a, (unfortunately because I really did love her), manipulative liar. But all that helped to shape me to the man I am in order to make me the perfect match for my current girlfriend. :) There is hope man. And it may get you when you least expect it.
 

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Inconsistancies Arise said:
Single, and not bothered trying.
Pretty much this.

If I wanted sex, which is the only reason why I would go into a romantic relationship, I could just have a wank or pay a prostitute.
 

lamewalletchain

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Married for about 10 years now. It's pretty awesome.

The only relationship advice I have is ignore 90% of relationship advice (100% if it's from an internet forum).
 

CloggedDonkey

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Aylaine said:
CloggedDonkey said:
Aylaine said:
Taken, and loving it. My girlfriend and I completely understand each other for the most part, and I feel that half of relationship problems is one person not really understanding the other person to address problems/issues that come along as the relationship progresses. If you don't know how to handle something, you will make a mistake, which can lead to breaking up. :/
I'm a little confused here. Didn't you say you had a boyfriend before? I'm fine with whatever you tell me, I just am confused on, you know, how you swing.

Anyway, I have no problems, as I have never had a girlfriend, so I is lonely.
Pretty sure that wasn't me. I've had boyfriends before, but from the time I joined to about 2 days ago I was single. In terms of what way I swing, it's both ways. :)
Must have been someone else, or you where talking past tense. Anyway, -1 to confusion stat for me.
 
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rddj623 said:
superbatranger said:
It is rough. Sometimes I wonder why I haven't found anyone yet, and about what could be wrong with me. Then I remember that this is life, and it's not perfect.
Unfortunately. Took me 22 years before I had a girlfriend, and the first one ended mutually when we discovered we both would make just better friends then a romantic relationship. Then my second girlfriend was a, (unfortunately because I really did love her), manipulative liar. But all that helped to shape me to the man I am in order to make me the perfect match for my current girlfriend. :) There is hope man. And it may get you when you least expect it.
True. I think there is someone out there for me, but I just haven't found her yet. I know I will, the only question is when. Unfortunately, it doesn't really help that I haven't felt anything for any of the girls I know here beyond being friends.
 

Andalusa

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Never been in a relationship, but from what I've seen and heard, they are difficult things that ultimately end up hurting people.
 

EeveeElectro

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Blarg! Don't get me started on the awfulness of my last relationship, I'll be here all week....
One thing that stuck out was at the start, he fancied my boy mate more than me and said he'd cheat on me with him if given the chance.

My current boyfriend has gorgeous girl mates and I bet he fancies them more than me. He's always calling them gorgeous on Facebook, not good for my self esteem.
 

TheTim

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J. Reed said:
TheTim said:
3 years with no fights or a single problem.

It almost seems too perfect >_>
Hm... referring to me, maybe?

I'll just assume you are...

It's not like we haven't had disagreements or misunderstandings or been angry at one another. Because we have. But I love her. She's my best friend. I trust her and believe her at her word. And she's the same with me. It's this level of trust and understanding that resolves problems without threatening "us".

She's been upset with me and I with her multiple times, but never has anything come close to jeopardizing our relationship.
Uhh actually i wasn't referreing to you at all, coincidence man.
 

Shockolate

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Single and never even tried. I haven't ever gotten close to anyone (including family) because I'm too busy pushing them away.

Although when I think "Relationship problems" I can't help but think School Days. Seriously, anything about love, sex, any of that. First thought? School Days

It's true what they say. What has been seen cannot be unseen.
 

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dodo1331 said:
All of you guys who are complaining about being single: BE HAPPY.

I am in a relationship and I am not exactly very happy. Would much rather be single right now.

OT: Anyway, all the girls I've been with don't really care at all for me or are too obsessive. The last one I was with NEVER hung out with me. The one I'm with right now is extremely clingy.
Dude I wish my girlfriend was clingy. She wants to hangout with sometimes, me but lots of times she will blow me off to go hang out with some of her other guy friends.

It makes my imagination go wild to think about what they're doing.
 

J. Reed

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TheTim said:
J. Reed said:
TheTim said:
3 years with no fights or a single problem.

It almost seems too perfect >_>
Hm... referring to me, maybe?

I'll just assume you are...

It's not like we haven't had disagreements or misunderstandings or been angry at one another. Because we have. But I love her. She's my best friend. I trust her and believe her at her word. And she's the same with me. It's this level of trust and understanding that resolves problems without threatening "us".

She's been upset with me and I with her multiple times, but never has anything come close to jeopardizing our relationship.
Uhh actually i wasn't referreing to you at all, coincidence man.
Ah-

Hm...

Never you mind then!

Or... wait a minute- were you referring to yourself?
 

duchaked

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time will tell, time will judge, time will test, time will prove...

but time does not always heal
 

Kenni-chan

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My freind id way too shy to talk to girls and get another girlfriend.
It's kinda cute really
 

Pariah87

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Meh, currently single. When I feel I deserve the love of another human being then I shall attempt to attain it. I look at it this way, if I were female, would I go out with me? Not a chance. It can still suck when everyone around you is getting all lovey dovey though.
 

MiracleOfSound

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They are tough and it is not always worth fighting to maintain them.

But every so often, two people meet whose 'right stuff' outweighs the 'wrong stuff', and it's great.