Eh. If you make enough attempts at equal compromise, law of limits states that you're eventually going to get there on the whole.Johnny Novgorod said:Like I said, you'll never find perfect 50/50 middle-ground, and if you can accept that then you should deal with the fact the other half of the relationship is going to lean one way or the other. But never a perfect middle.DANGER- MUST SILENCE said:I think relationships can only work if there is a compromise between someone being like and someone being unlike you. We need partners that are similar enough that we can relate to and yet different enough to not just mirror ourselves. And according to research I've read (long lost, sorry), relationships are most sustainable long-term when there is similarity in how the couple approaches things like money or household chores or sexual routines, but difference in other issues so that they can push each other to grow. Because really, it's the mutual growth that makes relationships last.Johnny Novgorod said:Fuck compromise, you'll never find a perfect compromise.
Personally, I'm happy if I can even get 40/60 compromise in the other person's favor. I'm not so anal-retentive that I'm ready to ditch a compromise because it didn't land flawlessly.