Khada said:Have you really looked into military activity, the people at the top of the chain who you will ultimately be serving and the benefits/downsides of a military as massive as the US's?
The military is not something you should willfully join. Violence begets violence and it's not like you're country is being invaded. In fact, it's the other way around. I Suggest you start Googling recent military activity (you might also want to take a look at Wiki leaks, a lot of enlightening information on the military).
Fail the training friend or lose part of your soul in the end.
People joining the forces are not the sheep you believe them to be, we research what they get up to the good and the bad and we make a concious choice whether that life is for us.