I bow to this post. I seem to recall us being on opposite ends of a few arguments on these kinds of issues and it tuns out we're practically on the same page... I just failed to communicate this.carnex said:There is a difference between criticism and saying things like "misogynist", "regressive crap", "harm women", "reinforce damaging stereotypes" etc.erttheking said:Why is gender and sexuality immune from criticism?
That is calling things as not only socially unacceptable but damaging. Unless one has proof of something like that, one should temper their language.
For example I can see how Dragon's crown art can make someone uncomfortable. That is legitimate thing to say. But to attack authors personality based on that is a bit sketchy to me. And to say that it's damaging women is something that really needs proof to be said publicly. Things like that can lead to severe consequences to authors of both the original work and the reviewer. If it's really damaging it should affect the first, but if it isn't, it should affect the second.
Although I would add that sometimes you have to let this kind of word usage slide. They may not intend their language to be so divisive and don't realize they're shouting when they should just be saying, "I'd appreciate it if you wouldn't set so many levels in strip clubs; I don't think it's important to many game stories". I've gone back and forth with many feminists over the years and once you get past the language barrier (we all use different shadings of common words and it causes no end to misunderstandings), they're usually pretty accepting that, yes, you will be a bit of a sexist pig from time to time, but that doesn't make you a bad person... and they really just want you to curb the worst of your impulses where appropriate.
If they happen to be of the unreasonable variety, you'll figure that out quickly enough.