Hence why I said "I'm not saying it's impossible (it's most definitely not)".mecegirl said:But do you have the ability to listen and the patience to learn? Most writers write about someone who isn't like them in some way, and thus they have to do research in order to get it right. They also have to practice their writing skills in order to properly convey what they have learned. The rest is up to human empathy and imagination.
Do you think George R.R. Martin knows what it's like to be a king? Or a mother? How about knight or a cold blooded murderer? His books are full of characters that are not like him in some way and yet he's managed to create some unforgettable characters.
It seems to me that with elves and aliens one never has to worry about being criticized. But a writer can't escape criticism when they write about humans different than themselves. And that human can either be another race, or even have a different profession, but some members of that group are bound notice when details are wrong.
However, modern writers have plenty of resources at their fingertips. They can read an entire backlog of books written by and about whatever demographic that they want to include into their stories. They can even reach individuals from that demographic via the internet in order to get first hand accounts about their experiences. So the hard part is empathy and imagination.
The problem is that when people try, Sturgeon's Law comes into effect. If you're unfamiliar with it, Sturgeon's Law is derived from an American sci-fi author and critic and basically goes "90% of everything is crap". This generally then doesn't end well for the work or the author.