Requesting help with girl problems.

[diego_2112]

Dude, go with the chick you can talk to!

I didn't get that he couldn't talk to the second one, he just didn't talk to her as much.

I guess I should have said something like "Go with the one you can have meaningful conversations with, because in the longrun, as I've previously stated, looks WILL fade (to be fair, some age better than others, just like wine), but a soul connection, a deep, MEANINGFUL connection is something that will last. Let's face it, Mr. Lennon was wrong, All You Need Is Love is a fairytale. To make a relationship WORK, it takes effort, determination, and sacrifice. So, you want someone you can communicate EASILY with, on a DEEP, INTIMATE leve."

That's what I ment, anyway.

[sup]Dang, I need to stop being all philosophical and junk and just outright state my mind[/sup]

[sup]This user's advice should be taken with a grain of salt, because as of right now, he's drunk anyway.On Jager, For the night.[/sup]

 

[leviathanmisha]

*cracks knuckles* Ok, let me see here...*pulls out her big book of being Dr. Phil*

Ok, so, the first girl you like because she has a great personality, you can have a meaningful discussion with her, and she isn't half bad looking??? Well now, she seems like an alright girl.

Now this second girl falls under the "nice but pretty" category. She's the kind of girl that you date BECAUSE of her looks, and while that may not be YOUR reason, is certainly is the reason of many others.

If I were a guy, I would be chasing after the first girl. In order for a relationship to stay solid, you need to be able to talk to and act natural around the person you date. If you could, I would tell you ask my boyfriend how he handles me, but since he's never online, that won't exactly work. Now, if you wanna date the "pretty" girl, by all means go ahead and do it, but be warned that she may have been around the block a few times and may end up expecting something that you may not be willing to give...but that can happen with anyone you date.

Good luck and I hope you make the right choice!

P.S. The shy ones are often the ones most open to new ideas!! **wink**

 

[kaieth]

Go with the second girl, dude. You seem more passionate about her, and that's a good thing (it'll keep you from getting bored or cheating, etc.), and if you don't have the most meaningful conversations, it'll still be okay as long as you have the conversations that you do have.

 

[Ensiferum]

Speaking from experience, it sounds like you'll have a much more rewarding relationship experience with the first girl. That being said try going out with both and seeing which one you click with better.

 

[bluemistake2]

Contact bonsaik he probaly knows more about women then women