geldonyetich said:
Blackbird71 said:
Hey, don't blame me (or Shamus, for that matter) if you choose to reject or ignore the given answer just because it's not complex enough for your expectations. Often the best answer is the simplest and most reliable, and if that's not enough for you, then again I say you should probably avoid the business world.
Think what you will about my reading skills, but you're the one who implied that a thought you quoted from the article was never addressed or answered, when in fact the answer was the crux of the issue at hand. You wanted advice from an experienced industry insider? You got it, plain and simple. Whether or not you choose to accept it as such is your problem.
I've written this messages like what I've quoted here in this post to other people before and, looking back, I certainly hope it was more justified than it was here, where you started with a false assumption about what I wrote and rode it straight to declaring me an idiot with reading comprehension issues.
I still haven't mastered the knack of evoking sympathy in the other poster, it seems, as rather than take anything I said to heart, you just stubbornly dug in. I mean, heaven forbid you write something like, "oh, is that you meant? You just wanted Mr. Young to elaborate on if there's better ways for big fish to coexist with small fish than to avoid them entirely? Like the direct quote you took from the original article implied he meant [http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/jump/6.225524.7687830]? Oh, I see what you mean now. My mistake."
No, I must be voicing myself wrong as some kind of foaming-at-the-mouth barbarian-at-the-gate, ready to loot and pillage your self-esteem if you dare let down your guard. Now, you're apparently backed in a corner, so desperate to save face that you'd say, "hey stupid, don't you know the intelligent thing to do is not ask for deeper answers and just embrace your ignorance?" Which is basically what the above quote boils down to. That's...
Well, in any case, I've come to recognize when this happens it's probably my fault. There's a subtle knack to presenting myself so as to be receptive to what I'm saying, I failed, and consequently I put you so badly on the spot that it came down to this. You have my apologies. I'm not sure how I could have better handled the situation on your first reply [http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/jump/6.225524.7732176], as it sounded then like you had something I was interested in, but now that we've gotten to the bottom of it, it's pretty clear I was just building on a misunderstanding. In an attempt to prevent the Escapist moderators from having to pop any more pain killers, it's probably best if I just end this here.
Let's just break things down for a moment:
1) Shamus states that there is a way to avoid getting hit with lawsuits by big companies that like to sue their smaller partners with the sole purpose of costing them so much money that they have no choice but to capitulate.
2) Shamus proceeds to explain that the way to do this is to avoid doing business with companies that have a history and reputation for this type of behavior
Now consider for a moment: Did Shamus provide an answer to his previous statement? Yes. Is it a reliable answer based on observation and experience? Yes. Does it do everything he claimed it would, i.e., provide smaller companies with a good level of protection from such lawsuits? Yes. Was it the answer you wanted? Appaerently not.
After reading this article, you came here, quoted Shamus' comment that there was a way for smaller companies to protect themselves, and then implied that the answer to that comment was not contained in the article, when in fact the answer was plainly spelled out. This is why I questioned your reading comprehension, not out of any intended insult or malice, but because of the simple fact that you didn't seem to be able to connect the two statements and realize that the answer you requested had already been given.
But it appears that the truth of the matter is simply that the answer given is not the answer you wanted to hear. It seems that you wanted some secret silver bullet that would let you still swim with the sharks without getting bit, when the best answer was simply to stay out of shark-infested waters. Not every problem has a deep and complex solution, because the fact is that the more complicated the answer, the less reliable it is and the less likely it is to succeed. The fact that you were looking for and expecting an answer that would let you "safely" involve yourself with these sorts of companies tells me that you believe that there is such a solution, and that you are exactly the sort of person who, despite all the warnings of danger and repeated history of litigous behavior, would go ahead and do business with these companies anyway. In Shamus' metaphor, you would be Activision's sixth spouse. This is why I indicated that you should avoid business, because you showed yourself to be someone likely to go into business deals oblivious to the hazards around you. It was meant as words of caution, not insult.
The fact that you choose to reject Shamus' answer as being a satisfctory solution to the problem, and that you continue to expect and believe that there is another effective answer, puts you squarely in category 3 of my previous post, under "willful ignorance". This is not any kind of attack on your intelligence, but rather an observation that you choose to blind yourself to the plain truth of the situation. This kind of attitude can land you in a lot of trouble in life. Unfortunately, as long as you maintain this choice, it is impossible for anyone to reason with you, because you have chosen to ignore reason.
In the event that you do choose to open your mind a bit, let me offer this: try not to take my words as personal attacks, for they are not intended as such. Consider them as objective and outside observations that if you so choose, you can use to better educate yourself about your own shortcomings.
Realize that I have no stake in this; I personally have nothing to gain or lose either way. However you take my words will have absolutely no effect on my life. I cannot be "backed into a corner" as you put it, because I have nothing to defend here. I offer only sincere advice; you can take it in the spirit it is offered, or leave it be, either way it's up to you.