Sabotage!

[SirDeadly]

Hey guys, I need your inputs.
One of my friends (a girl) really likes this guy. She's already changed so much from what she used to be because of him. They're not even going out and she's already lieing to her best friends and is making everyone angry, all because of him. In the end she will be the one to get hurt but by then it may be to late to save her friendships.

How would you guys sabotage this relationship from happening?

 

[FluffyNeurosis]

Give the dude VD

Seriously, don't even bother she will just get pissed at you.

 

[comadorcrack]

Don't be a martyr. Try and tell her straight, though girls usually make up their mind straight away. If nothing works, just tell her she can do as she wishes, and then say, "Just see if you have anyone to come to when he breaks your heart"

Peace

 

[Legion]

I wouldn't, as I have no right to.

 

[SirDeadly]

I know I sound like a crule bastard but in the end it's for the best. Could let let such a bright, smart person turn into a drunken smoker because of some guy?

 

[Monocle Man]

Cast out the safety net alongside with a "I knew it"/"I told you so" in case you are correct.
Besides that and telling her you don't like her changes, let it be.

Also, when I read this I thought you were talking about Sabotage and how enthralled a friend of yours is by that game. It seemed weird you referred to it as a guy.

 

[Diablo1099_v1legacy]

Maybe try pressuring her.
Get a big group of her friends and family.
If it does not work,don't blame me,YOUR the one looking on forums of relationship advice.
Although it does show your at wit's end.

 

[Pimppeter2]

Invade France?

Or you know, talk to her.

(I like the first option)

[sub]Woot! 8888! Fun times[/sub]

 

[SirDeadly]

Invade France?

Or you know, talk to her.

(I like the first option)

Im gonna go with the first option, it seems easier.

 

[Xhu]

Obviously, keeping her from making her own decisions on who she wants to be with is the only way forward.

 

[Kinguendo]

It seems the only viable option is... murder!

Nah, just explain it to her EXACTLY as it is... then once it all goes wrong tell her that she was warned exactly what would happen and such then maybe she will listen in the future...

 

[The_Bearded_One]

nothing like a good SABOTAGE!

 

[Dusty Donuts]

Get her to read Twilight, then she'll realise what a jerk she's being.
And besides, just tell her that she's being mean, and if she keeps defending her decisions, remove the source of all the conflict.
HER!!
[small]If you do "remove" her...can I have the braaaaaaaiiiiiiinnnssss?[/small]

 

[Daveman]

nothing like a good SABOTAGE!

Spoiler

and there I was thinking I was alone in thinking this...

but seriously, back off, let her make her own mistakes and learn from them.

 

[BaldursBananaSoap]

Pretend to be the guy and mug her on the streets dressed as Santa.

 

[BlueberryFalacy]

I know I sound like a crule bastard but in the end it's for the best. Could let let such a bright, smart person turn into a drunken smoker because of some guy?

Leave us drunken smokers alone...unless your talking pot.

OT: Personally I would say to her I don't like the bloke and what he seems to be doing to her and then do asI've had to do for friends so many times now and do the "I told you so but as your a friend and human I forgive the fact you made a flawed judgement and know you need cheering up" sessions

PS: Does anyone see the irony of asking for this advice in a forum let alone one that would stereotypically be filled with 25-35 year old dorks who may or may not still be virgins?

 

[Kinguendo]

I know I sound like a crule bastard but in the end it's for the best. Could let let such a bright, smart person turn into a drunken smoker because of some guy?

Leave us drunken smokers alone...unless your talking pot.

OT: Personally I would say to her I don't like the bloke and what he seems to be doing to her and then do asI've had to do for friends so many times now and do the "I told you so but as your a friend and human I forgive the fact you made a flawed judgement and know you need cheering up" sessions

PS: Does anyone see the irony of asking for this advice in a forum let alone one that would stereotypically be filled with 25-35 year old dorks who may or may not still be virgins?

No... as it has already been found that the average user of these forums is about 16-20 years old.

 

[Lord_Duke]

Either tell it straight to her face that you think she shouldnt do this, or leave it alone she will only hate you if you interfere, Or assassinate the guy, Helps as well

 

[EMFCRACKSHOT]

you know, for £10,000 i could 'remove' the problem for you.
Or you could do whats not best for me and actually talk to her. You know those wordy type things that sometimes come out of the noise holes on peoples faces

 

[BlueberryFalacy]

I know I sound like a crule bastard but in the end it's for the best. Could let let such a bright, smart person turn into a drunken smoker because of some guy?

Leave us drunken smokers alone...unless your talking pot.

OT: Personally I would say to her I don't like the bloke and what he seems to be doing to her and then do asI've had to do for friends so many times now and do the "I told you so but as your a friend and human I forgive the fact you made a flawed judgement and know you need cheering up" sessions

PS: Does anyone see the irony of asking for this advice in a forum let alone one that would stereotypically be filled with 25-35 year old dorks who may or may not still be virgins?

No... as it has already been found that the average user of these forums is about 16-20 years old.

I did say stereotypical didn't I?