Sabotage!

[quiet_samurai]

What...really? That's a pretty chicken shit thing to want to do. Let her make her own decisions, if you really are her friend you will remain so even after she does something stupid. I think you are just jealous.

 

[Lemon Of Life]

It's her choice. If you're that close to her, try to explain what you think she should do, but don't be an idiot and try to 'sabotage' her relationship. Leave her be, she'll learn her lesson.

 

[RanD00M]

Invade France?

You really hate France,don´t you?


OT:I wouldn't.If she takes the bad route and abandons her friends,then that's her choice.And in the end she will most likely come crawling back,so don´t worry to much.

 

[Kinguendo]

I know I sound like a crule bastard but in the end it's for the best. Could let let such a bright, smart person turn into a drunken smoker because of some guy?

Leave us drunken smokers alone...unless your talking pot.

OT: Personally I would say to her I don't like the bloke and what he seems to be doing to her and then do asI've had to do for friends so many times now and do the "I told you so but as your a friend and human I forgive the fact you made a flawed judgement and know you need cheering up" sessions

PS: Does anyone see the irony of asking for this advice in a forum let alone one that would stereotypically be filled with 25-35 year old dorks who may or may not still be virgins?

No... as it has already been found that the average user of these forums is about 16-20 years old.

I did say stereotypical didn't I?

Yes, and it isnt "stereotypically filled with 25-35 year old dorks"... I said "No... as it has already been found that the average user of these forums is about 16-20 years old." didnt I?

 

[El Poncho]

Let it happen.

Just let her learn from her own mistakes.

 

[TheRightToArmBears]

Hypnotise the guy to fall in love with a goose.

 

[ButanicXpandA]

Invade France?

Shit, you dont like the french do you?

..To answer the question ... personally i would do nothing, she will come around eventually... but seriously talk her out of the smoking.

Pimppeter hates the french, and i hate smoking (smokING not smokERS)

 

[Jory]

Invading France is really the solution for most things these days

 

[Hazy]

I wouldn't, as I have no right to.

Listen to this man. He is the one.

Let them try it out. If it doesn't work? Pfft, then it doesn't work.

Not your problem.

 

[Segadroid]

Give her a warning, that mostly works. If she shrugs it off, you can tell to her "You can't say I didn't warn you."

 

[Caligulove]

I think she would already be cruising for a let down from whoever this guy is... it'll be hard for awhile but its best that way

 

[Shycte]

Make that guy eat his parents.

 

[funguy2121]

Hey guys, I need your inputs.
One of my friends (a girl) really likes this guy. She's already changed so much from what she used to be because of him. They're not even going out and she's already lieing to her best friends and is making everyone angry, all because of him. In the end she will be the one to get hurt but by then it may be to late to save her friendships.

How would you guys sabotage this relationship from happening?

Hey guys, I need your inputs.
One of my friends (a girl) really likes this guy. She's already changed so much from what she used to be because of him. They're not even going out and she's already lieing to her best friends and is making everyone angry, all because of him. In the end she will be the one to get hurt but by then it may be to late to save her friendships.

How would you guys sabotage this relationship from happening?

Ok, here's my inputs. You're blaming this guy for the problems you're experiencing with the girl. If she's truly changed this much as a response to meeting him then guess what? Sorry, but she's not who you thought she was and if she's that inconsistent a person she's likely to prove a fair weather friend. It really sounds to me, though, that you're jealous b/c you secretly want her. No matter what the case, even if he's a total douche, blaming him for what's wrong with her will only have negative effects.

 

[Captain Schpack]

Seriously, don't even bother she will just get pissed at you.

She will get mad. Then you have to make a choice of whether to help her after she is knocked up/unwillingly loses virginity/hurt by him or just tell her she should've listened.

 

[funguy2121]

nothing like a good SABOTAGE!

Dammit, you ninja bastard...

Listen all-u-y'all...

 

[John Smyth]

Throw your clogs at her(see the origin of the word sabotage)

Invade France?

Or you know, talk to her.

(I like the first option)

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This is good to

 

[ProfessorLayton]

Almost this same experience happened to me recently and it makes me sick to my stomach. Friend, listen to me when I say there's nothing you can do. You're just going to have to give it up. This isn't like in Mulan II when you can just sabotage relationships so you can get your hot tub pedestal in that place with all the ghosts. I mean, it just made everything else worse. This is her decision and if she is going the wrong way then there's nothing you can do.

Sorry, and I am not joking when I say this happened to me.

 

[Robert632]

tell her straight to her face. that way, when she comes to her senses, she can't blame you for not warning her.

 

[Gildan Bladeborn]

PS: Does anyone see the irony of asking for this advice in a forum let alone one that would stereotypically be filled with 25-35 year old dorks who may or may not still be virgins?

Actually most people here are under 20 years of age, judging by the response this thread [http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/read/18.160492?page=6#4069603] got. The virgin thing is still true though!

 

[SirDeadly]

I hand wrote her a letter telling her everything I needed to tell her (won't see her for weeks because she's going away soon). Hopefully she'll read it and understand...