I couldn't agree more. Well said. To top it off I will give a real world example.TomBeraha said:I realize that making parents responsible for their children seems unreasonable and unnacceptable to the massses, but perhaps we could stop for a second and wonder why that is? I've heard it argued that parents can't be there all the time, to which I respond, if you can't care for your child then don't have one. Caring for a child is a lot more than providing food and shelter. It's teaching and nurturing and helping them grow into good people. Parents don't have to be around all the time to monitor their children's behavior, monitor what games they play, what movies they see. Parents DO need to stop blaming third parties for corrupting children that they can't be bothered to spend time with.
- Tom
A few months ago my 8 year old nephew came to visit. He of course wanted to play my Xbox. Before he arrived I took all of the inappropriate games, such as GTA, Doom, Halo, etc., and put them away where he couldn't get to them (Did they same with movie collection). He knew I had these games and asked to play them. I simply said no and that was it. He entertained himself playing age appropriate games while he stayed with me and my wife. He also wanted to play on xBox live. I let him, but did not give him the code or a headset and he was only allowed to play online while I was in the room. If I couldn't or didn't want to supervise, I logged him out and that was it.
In a related note my six year old niece came to visit with her brother and she likes to use the computer and get on the internet. While she stayed with us, she was only allowed to use the computer while under supervision. When me or my wife where not there to watch what she did and the sites she accessed, the computer was off and password protected.
We did the same for the TV. They could not access any program that wasn't PG or below without a password. Simple and easy.
Both of them did not like the restrictions, but they didn't put up to much of a fuss. It wasn't that hard at all. We just had to force them to conform to our rules in regards to games and the internet. We made it so that they could not access content that we did not want them to access.
I didn't need any government regulation to control the content the kids had access to.
Now when kids are over a friends house the situation is entirely different, but far from uncontrolable.