I didn't read every single post in this thread, but I figured I'd offer my two cents.
Feminism fits perfectly well into gaming. Most people don't seem to realize this, but when a game is feminist, most people actually won't notice it. The only way you would notice it is if you're one of those people who says something like "Wait, what!? Women/men shouldn't be doing that!".
People throw around the world "equality" a lot, but that's not really the point. The point is freedom from restrictive gender roles. Skyrim was an immensely popular game. I played it pretty thoroughly, and as far as I could tell, women and men were free to explore their lives as they saw fit and no one in the game universe seemed to think anything of it. No one was bound by any sort of gendered expectation of how they should live their lives.
I mean, you still see sex-based phrases such as "They lost a lot of good men that day", where men = soldiers, or the whole "Sons of Skyrim", but in the end, those are minor points.
The main point is that there were no qualities of a person that defined them as a strong man or woman, there were just qualities that defined strong people.
That is a very strong feminist value that was injected into a game, and again, unless you're one of those people who said "Aela the Huntress should be mopping floors, not fighting with the companions", then you probably didn't notice it.
It's not about just cramming female characters into everything. It's not about making exceptionalized females who say "Pff, don't be a GIRL." It's about creating settings and worlds in which human beings are free to explore their lives as they see fit with no gendered restrictions. And when you play a game that does this, it doesn't feel like you're playing a game that does this. Unless of course the developers slap you across the face with it.
It's unfortunate that the majority of people in the gaming community (and many other communities, to be honest) stick to the false image of feminism that has been painted for them. If you take a little bit of time to research and understand the political movement, you generally find a lot of your previous doubts debunked. The problem with discussions about feminism on sites like this is that most of the people who choose to engage in them have never actually looked into feminist theory from primary sources. As such, the conversations inevitably become:
"Here is my argument to stop feminism in its tracks!"
vs.
"Here is information on feminism 101."
And no one gets anywhere.
Feminism fits perfectly well into gaming. Most people don't seem to realize this, but when a game is feminist, most people actually won't notice it. The only way you would notice it is if you're one of those people who says something like "Wait, what!? Women/men shouldn't be doing that!".
People throw around the world "equality" a lot, but that's not really the point. The point is freedom from restrictive gender roles. Skyrim was an immensely popular game. I played it pretty thoroughly, and as far as I could tell, women and men were free to explore their lives as they saw fit and no one in the game universe seemed to think anything of it. No one was bound by any sort of gendered expectation of how they should live their lives.
I mean, you still see sex-based phrases such as "They lost a lot of good men that day", where men = soldiers, or the whole "Sons of Skyrim", but in the end, those are minor points.
The main point is that there were no qualities of a person that defined them as a strong man or woman, there were just qualities that defined strong people.
That is a very strong feminist value that was injected into a game, and again, unless you're one of those people who said "Aela the Huntress should be mopping floors, not fighting with the companions", then you probably didn't notice it.
It's not about just cramming female characters into everything. It's not about making exceptionalized females who say "Pff, don't be a GIRL." It's about creating settings and worlds in which human beings are free to explore their lives as they see fit with no gendered restrictions. And when you play a game that does this, it doesn't feel like you're playing a game that does this. Unless of course the developers slap you across the face with it.
It's unfortunate that the majority of people in the gaming community (and many other communities, to be honest) stick to the false image of feminism that has been painted for them. If you take a little bit of time to research and understand the political movement, you generally find a lot of your previous doubts debunked. The problem with discussions about feminism on sites like this is that most of the people who choose to engage in them have never actually looked into feminist theory from primary sources. As such, the conversations inevitably become:
"Here is my argument to stop feminism in its tracks!"
vs.
"Here is information on feminism 101."
And no one gets anywhere.