Should I push it or move on?

[Taxman1]

There's this girl I really liked. I made moves, nothing big and I can say were good friends. My buddies say she liked me back but I never bought it. I was going to ask her out soon, involving something like a valentines date or something like that but another guy asked her out. Now I'm at a state of limbo, I still like her and were still good friends but I feel like I would never encounter someone like her again, I have a bad thought of hoping she would break up and be open but should I just let it go and find someone else?
I'm still fairly young and probably will find someone else but I still have feelings for her...

 

[Taxman1]

October and I just hinted it. It was fairly obvious though.

 

[SturmDolch]

Are they official yet? Because if not, and if you don't mind pissing off the other guy, you could still ask her out.

Or if you want to keep things civil, move on. Keep a lookout for if they break up, but otherwise, distance yourself from her and force yourself to think of other girls. Like you said, you're young. There's someone out there for you, and it's not necessarily her.

 

[Taxman1]

They are going out and she told me herself( Doesn't help that I thought the guy was a bit of a dick even before they were dating ). I'm going to move on, it's hard to let her out of my mind because she occupied it for so long but I will try. I will keep a lookout if her relationship changes but I guess it's about time for me to open my mind for other girls.

Thanks for the advice, I needed some sort of guidance.

 

[rutger5000]

Push true of course. And apologize for not confessing earlier. (Both to yourself and her). If you don't go after her now, you'll regret it latter. Unless you don't mind staying in the friend zone. There's nothing wrong with that.

 

[zombiesinc]

There's this girl I really liked. I made moves, nothing big and I can say were good friends. My buddies say she liked me back but I never bought it. I was going to ask her out soon, involving something like a valentines date or something like that but another guy asked her out. Now I'm at a state of limbo, I still like her and were still good friends but I feel like I would never encounter someone like her again, I have a bad thought of hoping she would break up and be open but should I just let it go and find someone else?
I'm still fairly young and probably will find someone else but I still have feelings for her...

For now you need to accept the fact that this girl is dating someone else, and respect their relationship. You had the opportunity, and either she didn't feel the same way or she didn't catch your signals. It's not a good feeling either way, but while she's in a relationship with someone else, it's something you'll simply have to deal with. If this relationship ends at any point in the future, be more straight-forward when you express your feelings again, if you choose to do so.

Thing is... you will meet someone like her again. In fact, it's likely you'll meet several people in the future who you think are just as amazing, and then some. As for 'finding someone else' that doesn't really happen. I mean, you'll discover them, but try to avoid actively searching for 'that girl'. The more you look the more focused you will be the more frustrated and impatient you will become. Live your life, and when it's 'meant to happen' it'll happen. Until then just try to focus on those things that are under your control and that you find joy in.

 

[quiet_samurai]

Just ask her, what do you have to lose by not doing so? You automatically lose every chance you never take, so just go do it. And if she is your friend then she will probably still be so, after a kind of rather akward conversation nontheless, but you'll both get over it I imagine.

And don't worry if she is seeing someone else, as dickish as it might sound. For all you know she is only with the other guy because you never really made a move. And there is only one way to find out now isn't there....

So quit over analysing and go do it.