In my last relationship, I'd often drop whatever I was doing and spend time with my girlfriend whenever she asked. I'd usually talk to my friends sometimes during day when she wasn't there, and eventually I just simply neglected them as she wanted to do things.
I suppose though, the reasoning being in that she never spent time with me in the first place, so I'd jump at any opportunity I get. Being submissive to a girlfriend doesn't necessarily mean you're "whipped" or some kind of spineless wimp who's pushed around by a woman. It's simply the fact that if you truly love someone, you're going to put them ahead of your friends each time. If you honestly view her as just a friend who you're a little more intimate with, you should really consider if you truly love her. I know in relationships I tend to spend a lot of my money and care on the girlfriend, and I don't really want much back from her other than love. If you break up though, it's going to come back in bite you in the ass, so don't devote yourself to her till you're sure this isn't just a little mess-around.
That said, if your partner takes advantage of your generosity and clinginess and never returns it, don't continue being like that. They're simply going to walk all over you and break your heart, so act dominant. If she actually does want to spend time with you a lot though, don't turn her down for your buddies or for your personal time. Maybe once in a while, sure, but a relationship is a beautiful thing and you definitely shouldn't neglect it like that.
I suppose though, the reasoning being in that she never spent time with me in the first place, so I'd jump at any opportunity I get. Being submissive to a girlfriend doesn't necessarily mean you're "whipped" or some kind of spineless wimp who's pushed around by a woman. It's simply the fact that if you truly love someone, you're going to put them ahead of your friends each time. If you honestly view her as just a friend who you're a little more intimate with, you should really consider if you truly love her. I know in relationships I tend to spend a lot of my money and care on the girlfriend, and I don't really want much back from her other than love. If you break up though, it's going to come back in bite you in the ass, so don't devote yourself to her till you're sure this isn't just a little mess-around.
That said, if your partner takes advantage of your generosity and clinginess and never returns it, don't continue being like that. They're simply going to walk all over you and break your heart, so act dominant. If she actually does want to spend time with you a lot though, don't turn her down for your buddies or for your personal time. Maybe once in a while, sure, but a relationship is a beautiful thing and you definitely shouldn't neglect it like that.