So many mixed signals!!

[Quiet Stranger]

Hello, me again

So for the people who read about my strangest day ever, you will all know about this girl I met and who I like, or I think I could really get to like. Anyways, tonight while on Facebook, her friend (who is talking to me through the girl's account) tells me that the girl (Gina) is not interested in me and thinks I'm "too nerdy". Tonight I went on a double date with Gina and the friend and the friend's boyfriend (the friend is Chantel, boyfriend is Andreas....however you spell that) and as the date was over (we went to a movie) I drove them back to their place, Chantel and Andreas left the car and went inside, and Gina stayed and gave me a kiss goodnight, about three times. What do I do?

EDIT: I am just so confused right now

 

[vento 231]

The friends crazy, if I were you I would go for it, it sounds like Gina's into you so good luck.

 

[TheXRatedDodo]

Roll with it and if she fucks you about with the mixed signals anymore, walk away.

There's no reason to put up with headfuckery just because she has tits. If you did that to someone their first reaction would probably be "fuck this guy, what an asshole" and never talk to you again. Just because she's a female and just because you think she's hot or whatever, doesn't give her the right to walk all over you.

Like I said, roll with it for a while, see what happens and how things build up, but remain carefully skeptical. Don't let it consume you and the potential development of the relationship but just be fucking careful.

 

[Quiet Stranger]

I should also mention, we have another double date for when Toy Story 3 comes out

 

[Aur0ra145]

Dude, man, don't listen to friends, they don't know what's best. And dude, Good luck, sounds like you may have a nice relationship about to kickoff.

 

[Miumaru]

Some friends can be either over-protective or just downright bad people. Only person who can say what she feels about you is her, not her friend. Always confirm anything.

 

[zombiesinc]

Don't listen to other people, go by the signals she gives you. But if she starts giving you really mixed, random signals, you're probably better off not going for her.

Good luck.

 

[Bofus Teefus]

Well either a) the friend using her FB account was actually her and she feels the need to play games, b) she digs you and her friend feels the need to play games, or c) she doesn't dig you doesn't wanna tell you she doesn't dig you, is leading you on, and the friend is trying to be honest. Either way, it sounds like a wierd situation. I'd bail.

*shivers*

I have nightmares about your avatar.

 

[Weaver]

If she kissed you I hardly see how that is mincing signals.
She's into you.

 

[daftalchemist]

Girlfriends will often attempt to scare off boys they don't think are worthy of dating their friends. So I'd say only pay attention to the signals the girl you like is giving you, and not any that her friend is giving you.

 

[Yureina]

I'd say only pay attention to the "signals" that you recieve directly. The rest is just chicken-feed.

 

[Brandon237]

3 times-a-goodnight-kiss... = go for it. Lucky bugger.

The friend is probably mad or just misunderstands.

 

[teisjm]

How well do you handle awkwardness?

You could always take her to see a movie, and then first try to hold her hand durring the film, if she "rejects" then give up already, ignore her and appreciate the movie for teh rest of the movie, and end the night out after it's done. IF she won't let you hold her hand, she is in no way interrested.
If not hold her hand for a bit and turn your head to look at her, if she turns to you and keeps eye contact for more than a short moment, you'll easily be able to tell how she'll react to you trying to kiss her before you've even done it.

Try and find a movie, which is interresting enough to keep your head off of awkwardness if she isn't into you, but not so interresting that you'll forget about each other before giving it a try, you don't want to think she's uninterrested just cause she was paying too much attention to the movie.

Also, seeing that she already kissed you goodnight, this may be a far too requiring plan in order to figure out a thing like that.
Since your'e already past the mental barrier of touching each other (not speakign sexually at this point) you can just do the eye thing, when she kisses you (i assuem you're talkign bout a small peck, otehrwise the OP is redundant and she is most likely into you) hold her gaze for a few seconds and you'll easily pick up from her smile/eyes/body language whetehr or not it'd be okay to try and kiss her more romanticly or not, and it won't be awkward if cause you've already kissed each other a little already.

Just rememebr, if you're trying to figure out whether she's into you and you get to kiss her, don't insta-grap her ass as soon as your lips meet, cause if she dislieks that, it might be hard to tell whether it's the kiss in general that she's not happy with, or just the ass-grapping part, which for some girls is too closely related to sex, to be okay that early on.

Put in other words.
Asking straight up "are you interrested in me" can be pretty awkward and easily come out more childish than you'd like it to, it's a lot easier, to ask it with speachless lips (kisses if you will)

Or you could dress up as a pirate, and play "captain morgans revenge" for her, if she wasn't into you before she will be, due to your manly awesomeness, and if she already wass it'd be all that better.
the only way to top it would be to get someone else to do it, and dress yourself up as a ninja, and come out of nowhere and beat him durring the last chorus.

 

[Zeromaeus]

As a rule. The girl-friend's friends NEVER like you, so she might be lying.

 

[child of lileth]

Ask her out again? I don't see the problem. She might say no, and that's it. Or she might say yes, and you go from there.

 

[Anticitizen_Two]

Ask her out. I don't really see what the problem is here...