I think this right here was your problem. Typically, the people who love the games (for it applies to all TES games) most are those of us who are able to just focus on doing what we want and, more or less, let our skills take care of themselves. I literally just stopped playing before posting, and I honestly don't know what any of my skill levels are. I know my sneak is at 100, and my archery and one handed are somewhere between 65 and 75, but aside from that, no idea.Jitters Caffeine said:I also felt like the game was IMPOSSIBLE to roleplay in, the skill system kept me in a state of mind that I was ALWAYS playing a game. Need higher Blacksmithing? Better craft Iron Daggers for 2 hours. Need higher Barter? Better sell all those Iron Daggers I made ONE AT A TIME.
The problem is, a lot of people aren't able to just let go like that, or they don't want to. They're constantly trying to maximize profit from dungeon diving (i.e. loading up, going back to sell, going to another city to sell once the merchants in the first city run out, going back to pick up more gear, repeat), or planning their characters out from level 1 to 50. And that's fine. I've always said TES games aren't for everyone.
But if you are interested in seeing how those of us who love it play, you need to let go of a lot of habits.
Here are a couple tips:
1. Never plan your character's skills/perks beyond the next couple of levels. If you plan too far ahead you're just going to get bored because you resort to grinding to get to the perks/levels you want.
2. Fast travel sparingly. The game world is beautiful and expansive, give yourself the chance to enjoy it.
3. Don't over-optimize your equipment. Swapping out weapons and armor is fine and a good idea, but don't be afraid to use sub par gear if you think it looks better or fits the character better.
4. Adjust the difficulty anytime you want. I typically play all my characters on Adept (default) when they first start, but then bump it up to Expert when they get strong enough. This helps the game have some challenge without forcing me to cheat the system at all.
5. Pick a personality for your character. This could also include a backstory, aspirations, etc. Stick to this as much as possible. I find I have more fun with characters if I'm not afraid to turn down some quests they wouldn't take because of their personality. For example, the character I was playing earlier is Master of the Thieves guild and slightly vain, so she doesn't take delivery quests or other menial tasks. She thinks its beneath her.
Again, Skyrim, and TES games in general, aren't for everyone. If you're not able to, or simply have no interest in, simply letting go and playing the character you won't really like it. Simple as that.