So theres this girl....

[havass]

I am confused as hell too, just ask the chick out, what bad could happen? if u guys r friends now, even after you ask and if, IF she says no, then y cant u guys still be friends after?

This isn't YouTube comments you know? Keep it the grammar straight.

The irony. Have you re-read your own statement?
OT: Yeah..what Pararaptor said. Don't confess. It rarely leads to good endings.

 

[bluemistake2]

I'm getting mixed messages here thank you all for advice so far but another question is this girl interested in me? yes? no? please tell me what you think thanks in advance

 

[zama174]

I'm getting mixed messages here thank you all for advice so far but another question is this girl interested in me? yes? no? please tell me what you think thanks in advance

Look man none of us can say for sure, you have more information then us, you spend time with her and you know if she has been truly more affectionate towards you. I think she might be, but we can't honestly say yay or nay.. We just aren't that psychic...

 

[Littlee300]

I am confused as hell too, just ask the chick out, what bad could happen? if u guys r friends now, even after you ask and if, IF she says no, then y cant u guys still be friends after?

This isn't YouTube comments you know? Keep it the grammar straight.

The irony. Have you re-read your own statement?
OT: Yeah..what Pararaptor said. Don't confess. It rarely leads to good endings.

That is embarrassing...

 

[Littlee300]

Sounds like she is just a happy girl who enjoys your company and is having a bit of fun.

That is what everyone would see on the outside but on the inside we have no idea what is happening...


She could be plotting murder for all we know.
I have acute paranoia

 

[AugustFall]

I have so many "could have happened"s and I can tell you that they suck. The incredibly dense and difficult to read OP leads me to believe you like her?

Ask her out. If you don't and she likes you she will drift away.

 

[Matamusca]

I don't know.. depends on what kind of person she is. I have a friend who has flat out told me that if I told her i was interested and she didn't feel it wouldn't effect our relationship. It's not bad to ask for advice, but YOU know her best and eventually all these opinions wont matter and you'll do what feels right.

 

[ThrobbingEgo]

Contrary to popular belief, the direct approach is usually the best. If you like her, tell her so. The worst that can happen if she says no, as they say, and that isn't the kind of thing that can ruin a good friendship one way or the other.

Yeah, good friendships can only be ruined with a "yes."

*Flaskswig*

 

[zama174]

Contrary to popular belief, the direct approach is usually the best. If you like her, tell her so. The worst that can happen if she says no, as they say, and that isn't the kind of thing that can ruin a good friendship one way or the other.

Yeah, good friendships can only be ruined with a "yes."

*Flaskswig*

Eh most of my relationships that have gone sour me and my exs are still good.

 

[brumley53]

I am confused as hell too, just ask the chick out, what bad could happen? if u guys r friends now, even after you ask and if, IF she says no, then y cant u guys still be friends after?

I'm bad with words also things might be awkward to be honest I've never been in this situation before so I have no clue how it would go

Ask her out, or at least tell her you like her. Im also an aussie in year nine and I think if you really like her then you should go ahead and just do it, if she says no it wont really matter it may be awkward for a bit but you should end up staying friends.

 

[The Reverend]

Simple solution. Next time you two are together, and there's a lull in the conversation, ask her if you can kiss her. If she says "Yes", problem solved. If she says no almost immediatly, reply "I dont really want to, you just looked kinda spaced out for a second there, I was making sure you were paying attention." Anything in between, you'll have to check her body langauge, and decide whether to just go for it from there.
Good luck buddy!

 

[Jonabob87]

I'd say tell her, but otherwise enjoy the "chase". It's honestly the thing I miss most about being married...and old-ish.

Simple solution. Next time you two are together, and there's a lull in the conversation, ask her if you can kiss her. If she says "Yes", problem solved. If she says no almost immediatly, reply "I dont really want to, you just looked kinda spaced out for a second there, I was making sure you were paying attention." Anything in between, you'll have to check her body langauge, and decide whether to just go for it from there.
Good luck buddy!

I don't think that's a very good idea, it's a bit forward.

 

[Vanguard_Ex]

I am confused as hell too, just ask the chick out, what bad could happen? if u guys r friends now, even after you ask and if, IF she says no, then y cant u guys still be friends after?

Same, that was a lot of shit to follow.

http://www.insidesocal.com/tomhoffarth/exhausted.jpg

I'd just take her as the friend she's been for a long time dude and try not to assume anything else. If it gets round to that then think on your feet but in the meantime, just feign ignorance.

 

[blankedboy]

Sounds like she is just a happy girl who enjoys your company and is having a bit of fun.

That is what everyone would see on the outside but on the inside we have no idea what is happening...


She could be plotting murder for all we know.
I have acute paranoia

Watch Higurashi No Naku Koro Ni, it's a brilliant anime I'm sure you'll enjoy

 

[Ekonk]

Ask her out.

Worked for me.

 

[PunkRex]

Oooow, my head... go for it guy, might aswell, you seem close enough to get over it if it back fires and if it doesnt, BOOYAH!!!

 

[370999]

Well seeing as you like her I can't see a reason why not to ask her out. Honestly she could just be being whimsical I know sometimes I am.

 

[klaynexas3]

it does sound confusing, but from the sounds of it, i'd have to say she might like you. i know plenty of girls that will just hug you and not be into you at the same time. but from the way you make it sound she sounds a little suspicious with it all. just making conversation? you say you two talk a lot so why would she need to make up material for you guys to talk about? you only ask from one friend, so ask more of her friends, or get one of your friends to ask her what she thinks of you. don't come on too strong with the belief that she may like you, cause it could be wrong and you need to be willing to let go of the idea if it's not true. it's complicated, but just make small steps to finding out what she thinks of you. if she does like you, then go for it. if not, just stay friends. if you guys are good friends then something like that won't drive you two apart. besides, you say you only have some feelings for her which means you would most likely get over rejection quickly and move on.

in summary: take baby steps to find out if she likes you without being too suspicious and then do what needs to be done based upon whether or not she does like you. good luck.

 

[BonsaiK]

Right, I'm a year 9 in Australia I'm not sure what that is in America and such but I'm 15 incase that matters.
There's this girl, a friend of mine, somewhat a good friend and probably the person i talk with most and can tell the most.
So lately she's been acting differently (Waving goodbye, randomly hugging me, always saying hi and such) but I didn't think much of it so I just let it pass, however a few days ago she tells me she likes someone, naturally being her friend i wanted to know who but she didn't tell me.

Now this is a little strange since she pretty much tells me everything, so after a while (Do mind this was over Facebook so i couldn't detect hints of sarcasm or tell whether she was being serious or not) I keep asking for hints.
After 5 hours of talking I gather as much, every hint led to me, naturally not wanting things to get awkward I played dumb for all that time (also a little bit into it she tells me she likes me followed by a "JK" (just kidding) rapidly after she said it).
Towards the end of our little chat she starts telling me that she likes no one, being the twat that I am, I don't believe her and just carry on the conversation.
Then I ask her if she was serious about who she likes she tells me she is, tho this being on Facebook and being typed I can't tell if she is serious or not.

Then earlier this week I ask her friend if she knew what was going on with her, she told me she didn't.
Later that day she tells me (the girl I'm talking about not her friend) that she only told me those things to make conversation, yet again I didn't believe her.
Then I tell her I'm confused about people and stuff, tell her I like someone but not who, naturally she asumes it's her (or at least i think).
The next day her friend asks me what i was on about the other day, she asks me if it was because I thought the girl likes me, then she tells me it was only to get her off my back, though in reality she could have just ended it at the start of the conversation and not told me anything.
Later that day I was talking to her and she asks what I wanted to know what I was asking her she was serious about, so her friend yells ABOUT WHETHER YOU LIKE HIM OR NOT, people laugh, then she goes "Oh that, that was about 3 people".

So now naturally I'm confused as hell and a little hurt so tell me what do you think? does she like me, does she not? I just need some opinions.

You pushed her for hints, for five hours? Dude, you gotta learn when enough is enough, I wouldn't have wasted five minutes personally. There's nothing in there to indicate whether she likes you or not, although I'd be inclined to guess no but who knows. If you really wanted to find out, you could try asking her out, and you've got nothing to lose here because unless she's incredibly stupid she's already figured out that you like her so you might as well go for broke.