Deshin said:
it's not fair or even ethical to label smokers in the same crowd as drug users.
Why not? You are. Coffee and chocolate is a drug technically, drugs aren't just illegal things. Drugs have this negative "omg he said he uses drugs", everybody does in one form or another.
If you said hard drug users I wouldn't have a problem, but you are a drug user.
On topic. I have no idea why people start. As far as the cool factor goes, I think it is total bullshit, since when is it cool to want to induce cancer? You don't look cool being addicted to a little white stick containing so many poisons it would make your jaw drop, it is
the most attractive thing a girl can do.
If it's looks cool to smoke why aren't people who eat lollipops considered cool? With there little white stick hanging out there gob or do you need the smoke and pending cancer diagnosis to be cool?
"It relaxes you/gets rid of stress", How stressed are you going to be when the doc tells you your fucked and you paid for your own death? How stressed are you when you don't have a cig?
"it helps you be social", ok but why can't you just go with the person who is smoking? I do, I am in a job now where every person smokes, I just go with them and talk to them. "what about second hand smoke?", I am stood in a massive open space and stood about 6 foot away from them AKA it's about the same as walking down a road.
Also, why can't you just say "hi" to a person why does a cig have to be an ice breaker?
And to the one kid who on the first page said "I want to die", your not in a fucking rush are you?!? Jeez, that has to be the slowest suicide I have ever heard of!
"it gives me something do with my hands" easy solve to that, blu tack. Seriously, get some of that stuff and just mess with it, I can spend ages playing with a small blob of that stuff.
I see no good reason to smoke at all. Just seems weak to me, I know I am going to get flamed for saying that but I all I hear is easy ways out of not very serious situations. Then again I never get stressed so take what I have said for what it is.
EDIT: wow, that was longer than I expected.
By the way I don't drink, don't smoke and don't use any drugs to make myself feel happy/relaxed. I use to binge on massive amounts of chocolate but I am cutting that out now.