Hello, good evening. This year I'm turning 22, after more than a year of searching I finally have an above average job I would very much like to maintain, I have no real desire to take on grand studies (I'll always learn something, but nothing that would force me to combine half a decade of schooling with my job) right now.
The thing is, that, I have no girl, no friends. Sure, I have a lot of acquaintances and "friends" (imagine biggest quotation marks imaginable), but no buddy I can contact to come over and play video games Game Grumps-style. Or to go to and talk about a movie for two hours or simple issues and how to overcome them. People constantly tell me to 'socialize', like it's some kind of end-all solution to any problem, but Belgium's kind of a dead place for gamers, and it's even deader if you're trying to find somebody who doesn't exclusively play the Call of Duty or Fifa games, and has a broad taste in all sorts of video games, from Super Meat Boy to Deus Ex. I'm not saying those games are bad, just that gamers here are the stereotypical kind everybody knows: they don't challenge me or provide me with a good conversation. Oh yes, and asking anybody here if they know about Warhammer 40k WILL give you weird looks, I guarantee it. "Is... is that some kind of MMO?" was the latest response I've heard.
Going to conventions or LAN-parties have been on my mind. I've never been to a convention or LAN-party before, but from the pictures I've seen of the only convention in the entirety of Belgium it looks like it's being done in some school's basketball court, with people wearing the most plastic and ridiculous looking outfits imaginable. In America it looks like so much more fun, I think I'd have a whale of a time there. "Someday, you'll find somebody." is also something I'm getting tired of hearing, because it directly contradicts the "You need to socialize." excuse. I don't want to find somebody when I'm 40.
Any idea's, Escapist? The person or people I'm looking for probably exist, it's just that I don't know how to find them.
The thing is, that, I have no girl, no friends. Sure, I have a lot of acquaintances and "friends" (imagine biggest quotation marks imaginable), but no buddy I can contact to come over and play video games Game Grumps-style. Or to go to and talk about a movie for two hours or simple issues and how to overcome them. People constantly tell me to 'socialize', like it's some kind of end-all solution to any problem, but Belgium's kind of a dead place for gamers, and it's even deader if you're trying to find somebody who doesn't exclusively play the Call of Duty or Fifa games, and has a broad taste in all sorts of video games, from Super Meat Boy to Deus Ex. I'm not saying those games are bad, just that gamers here are the stereotypical kind everybody knows: they don't challenge me or provide me with a good conversation. Oh yes, and asking anybody here if they know about Warhammer 40k WILL give you weird looks, I guarantee it. "Is... is that some kind of MMO?" was the latest response I've heard.
Going to conventions or LAN-parties have been on my mind. I've never been to a convention or LAN-party before, but from the pictures I've seen of the only convention in the entirety of Belgium it looks like it's being done in some school's basketball court, with people wearing the most plastic and ridiculous looking outfits imaginable. In America it looks like so much more fun, I think I'd have a whale of a time there. "Someday, you'll find somebody." is also something I'm getting tired of hearing, because it directly contradicts the "You need to socialize." excuse. I don't want to find somebody when I'm 40.
Any idea's, Escapist? The person or people I'm looking for probably exist, it's just that I don't know how to find them.