Malygris said:
Consider war movies. Blackhawk Down, for instance, to cite a movie based on a recent American conflict. Because it focuses on the elements of that single battle, viewers get lots of action and blood-pumping entertainment as well as a small taste of the chaos and camaraderie of the battlefield. It entertains without diminishing the reality of what soldiers went through in Somalia.
I almost went and counted minutes till someone would mention Black Hawk Down.
It's a very cool movie that I enjoyed immensely. But I stress - it does NOT portray the conflict in a realistic way, because of several key factors.
Because it focuses on just a few elements, it is also both devoid of context on a lot of occasions and leaves out the other part of soldier's life in a conflict: all that boring and annoying stuff you do when bullets are not whizzing past your head ... and that's like 99.9% of time. Hopefully more. And no, even in a high-intensity conflict, you're not under enemy fire all the time, no matter how strongly movies want to tell you that.
Moreover, the movie is not really dealing with consequences of said experiences. Moviegoers will just walk out of the theater, maybe think about the flick for a couple days at most and forget most of the experience. Soldiers however, are left with usually traumatic memories that have far stronger impact than most people seem to realize.
War movies can make an impact on you. Anyone that has seen first 20 minutes of Saving Private Ryan will agree. But tell any war vet that movies are realistic and he'll be laughing his ass off.
The problem is also, that movies and games are profoundly different in the way you participate in them. If you watch a good war movie, it's bound to be full of action. If you play a war game ... well, you'd better be good or there's a lot of reloading waiting for you.
Which takes us to another fact: you *can* reload in a game. Now picture this: you're twenty minutes in a cool war movie, and suddenly the main character dies and the movie ends abruptly.
*Damn, I wanna make such movie! ;D*