something i've notice on here...

[bdcjacko]

Lots of you seem to think you have to make huge sacrifices to be with the person you love...If you think relationships are big romantic sacrifices, you are probably doing it wrong.

Now if you are making adjustments in your life to accommodate the other person and they are doing the same for you, that i normal. Or if you were already in love with them, and something happens to them and you decide to stick it out while they are coping and whatever, that is admirable.

discuss

 

[Avatar Roku]

Ermmm...wha? I sort of see what you're saying, but where did this come from? If this is a response to a specific thread, you should probably post it there, since I have no clue what this is.

 

[emeraldrafael]

Isnt the old saying that Marriage is a compromise and Compromise is just another word for saying that no one gets what they want.

 

[bdcjacko]

Ermmm...wha? I sort of see what you're saying, but where did this come from? If this is a response to a specific thread, you should probably post it there, since I have no clue what this is.

I have been see lots of people saying they would make sacrifices across a few threads, but I don't feel like finding them. So now we have this vague thread that kind makes me come off like a spaz, but I'm cool with it. But hopefully it will morph into a better thread about what people think is the difference between a compromise and a sacrifice in a relationship.

 

[bdcjacko]

Im not gonna wrap my life around hers nor would I outright offer myself to defend her but I might do it on instinct(damn instinct, getting me shot or run over)

I didn't mean heroic sacrifices, more like day to day life changes you do because the other person needs it. Like you have to give up the sex, or the person you fall in love with is or becomes some sort of vegan or has a religious experience which ends up making you give up bacon or something.

 

[bdcjacko]

Im not gonna wrap my life around hers nor would I outright offer myself to defend her but I might do it on instinct(damn instinct, getting me shot or run over)

I didn't mean heroic sacrifices, more like day to day life changes you do because the other person needs it. Like you have to give up the sex, or the person you fall in love with is or becomes some sort of vegan or has a religious experience which ends up making you give up bacon or something.

well fuck that
but then again i have a pretty open lifestyle and as long as shes in charge of it but I cant guarantee anything so who knows if id reject it(i need meat....)

So would you rather save her from getting hit by a car which results in you losing you legs or not get to have real meat again?

 

[bdcjacko]

Im all about heroics, but this discussion is all for not for I have no girl.
ps-i wouldnt lose my legs for I know how to get hit by a car safely(which i suggest to everyone to learn)
but i would pull her not push her away so i wouldnt be in front of the car anyway

Yeah, even with no legs, you could still enjoy a bacon cheese burger. And no you lost your legs because I shot you after hitting you with my car. Sorry bro.

 

[bdcjacko]

Im all about heroics, but this discussion is all for not for I have no girl.
ps-i wouldnt lose my legs for I know how to get hit by a car safely(which i suggest to everyone to learn)
but i would pull her not push her away so i wouldnt be in front of the car anyway

Yeah, even with no legs, you could still enjoy a bacon cheese burger. And no you lost your legs because I shot you after hitting you with my car. Sorry bro.

SON OF A *****!
thats what u get for saving people....

Nothing personal, but I have a reputation of crippling people in car accident to maintain. I'd bring you a beer in the hospital if that would make you feel better.

 

[bdcjacko]

Im all about heroics, but this discussion is all for not for I have no girl.
ps-i wouldnt lose my legs for I know how to get hit by a car safely(which i suggest to everyone to learn)
but i would pull her not push her away so i wouldnt be in front of the car anyway

Yeah, even with no legs, you could still enjoy a bacon cheese burger. And no you lost your legs because I shot you after hitting you with my car. Sorry bro.

SON OF A *****!
thats what u get for saving people....

Nothing personal, but I have a reputation of crippling people in car accident to maintain. I'd bring you a beer in the hospital if that would make you feel better.

but I dont drink...

Damnit, this relationship is never going to work.