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Mrsoupcup

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I just broke off a relationship with a friend I have known since cindergarden, and if I wern't thier he would have just been a bullied wimpering little *****. But I didn't realise then he would take all my friends later in life turn me into the ***** even though I was kind to him all these years, and despite that it is somehow all my fault for being excluded.

I hate double croosing bullies and, honstly I have been alone with no social life for eight years.... I need some emotional kick starting crap since I've been a little down lately, God I wish I had a loyal friend in real life.......

Just share you sad experinces and maybe we can all feel a little better indide. (I sure hope I do)
 

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Patrick_and_the_ricks said:
I just broke off a relationship with a friend I have known since cindergarden, and if I wern't thier he would have just been a bullied wimpering little *****. But I didn't realise then he would take all my friends later in life turn me into the ***** even though I was kind to him all these years and despite that it is all my fault for being excluded.

I hate double croosing bullies and, honstly I have been alone with no social life for eight years.... I need some emotional kick starting crap since I've been a little dowd lately, God I wish I had a loal friend in real life.......

Just share you sad experinces and maybe we can all feel a little better indide. (I sure hope I do)
Cindergarden eh? Where was this? Volcano grammar school? Sorry.

I had a friend that thought I was backstabbing him by going out with his ex that he went out with for 2 weeks. And he treated her like garbage. I went out with her even though he was telling me I shouldn't and I had to choose between him or her. I was friends with him since Cindergarden as well. =P But yeah, that was a tough choice. Looking back on it, I made the right choice because we've been going out for about 1 1/2 years now. She is awesome =D Sorry that had to happen to you, but shit happens man. Just gotta expand your horizons, network, meet new people.
 

darkless

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All my "Best friends" Once accused me of raping a 15 year old and where so convinced i'd done it they decided to tell everyone in school an act that ended with me having my head slammed into a coat hook, three broken ribs and a dislocated finger, this was followed by a hasty apology after the girl stepped in and told them what had really happened.

Real Story: A girl i knew from a support group i helped with got insanely drunk one night and i was trying to get her back to her friends house to sober her up of course she fought back because you know 15 and drunk isn't going to go down well with anyone's parents and all the seen was her trying to fight me off.

Feel better now?
 

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darkless said:
All my "Best friends" Once accused me of raping a 15 year old and where so convinced i'd done it they decided to tell everyone in school an act that ended with me having my head slammed into a coat hook, three broken ribs and a dislocated finger, this was followed by a hasty apology after the girl stepped in and told them what had really happened.

Real Story: A girl i knew from a support group i helped with got insanely drunk one night and i was trying to get her back to her friends house to sober her up of course she fought back because you know 15 and drunk isn't going to go down well with anyone's parents and all the seen was her trying to fight me off.

Feel better now?
Wow man. Slandering to that degree can be taken to court. Thats insane.
 

darkless

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Mr.Pandah said:
darkless said:
All my "Best friends" Once accused me of raping a 15 year old and where so convinced i'd done it they decided to tell everyone in school an act that ended with me having my head slammed into a coat hook, three broken ribs and a dislocated finger, this was followed by a hasty apology after the girl stepped in and told them what had really happened.

Real Story: A girl i knew from a support group i helped with got insanely drunk one night and i was trying to get her back to her friends house to sober her up of course she fought back because you know 15 and drunk isn't going to go down well with anyone's parents and all the seen was her trying to fight me off.

Feel better now?
Wow man. Slandering to that degree can be taken to court. Thats insane.
I don't like court rooms i just made sure everyone knew they were a lying bunch of pricks got my apologies and found better people to associate with.
 

Mr.Pandah

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darkless said:
Mr.Pandah said:
darkless said:
All my "Best friends" Once accused me of raping a 15 year old and where so convinced i'd done it they decided to tell everyone in school an act that ended with me having my head slammed into a coat hook, three broken ribs and a dislocated finger, this was followed by a hasty apology after the girl stepped in and told them what had really happened.

Real Story: A girl i knew from a support group i helped with got insanely drunk one night and i was trying to get her back to her friends house to sober her up of course she fought back because you know 15 and drunk isn't going to go down well with anyone's parents and all the seen was her trying to fight me off.

Feel better now?
Wow man. Slandering to that degree can be taken to court. Thats insane.
I don't like court rooms i just made sure everyone knew they were a lying bunch of pricks got my apologies and found better people to associate with.
Ah, at least you moved on to new and better people.
 

darkless

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MaxTheReaper said:
darkless said:
All my "Best friends" Once accused me of raping a 15 year old and where so convinced i'd done it they decided to tell everyone in school an act that ended with me having my head slammed into a coat hook, three broken ribs and a dislocated finger, this was followed by a hasty apology after the girl stepped in and told them what had really happened.

Real Story: A girl i knew from a support group i helped with got insanely drunk one night and i was trying to get her back to her friends house to sober her up of course she fought back because you know 15 and drunk isn't going to go down well with anyone's parents and all the seen was her trying to fight me off.

Feel better now?
...This isn't going to make you feel any better, but I'm sorry that happened to you.
I actually feel rather uncomfortable now, because if I was convinced you'd raped someone, I'd probably have hurt you a lot worse than just that.
...I didn't even do anything this time and I feel terrible.
Nah it's fine really, I got over it a few months later and you aren't the first person to be convinced i had done it before i was able to finish the story it worked out well for me in the end though had i remained with said group i would have ended up just like them, drug filled and alone XD
 

darkless

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Mr.Pandah said:
darkless said:
Mr.Pandah said:
darkless said:
All my "Best friends" Once accused me of raping a 15 year old and where so convinced i'd done it they decided to tell everyone in school an act that ended with me having my head slammed into a coat hook, three broken ribs and a dislocated finger, this was followed by a hasty apology after the girl stepped in and told them what had really happened.

Real Story: A girl i knew from a support group i helped with got insanely drunk one night and i was trying to get her back to her friends house to sober her up of course she fought back because you know 15 and drunk isn't going to go down well with anyone's parents and all the seen was her trying to fight me off.

Feel better now?
Wow man. Slandering to that degree can be taken to court. Thats insane.
I don't like court rooms i just made sure everyone knew they were a lying bunch of pricks got my apologies and found better people to associate with.
Ah, at least you moved on to new and better people.
I still see them around every now and then for info on how they are i direct you to the end of the post above this one XD and that makes me really happy :)
 

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Hmmm, sad story....

Oh ya, one of my best friends that I had known since grade two (girl), told me that she "hated me and wished that I would die". She did this because I was teasing her that she liked this guy that worked at the Old Navy near where I live. Well, it got a whole bunch of people laughing, so then she said before stated quote.

It so happens, that the next day I end up in an accident where I lacerated my liver (which filled half of my chest cavity with blood), broke five ribs, broke my pelvis bone in two places, and won a cardiac contusion.

The doctors said that the only reason I was alive, was because I was driving my parent's old two tonne car. I had to use that car because my truck was getting service.

Funny how things turn out like that eh?
 

darkless

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MaxTheReaper said:
darkless said:
MaxTheReaper said:
darkless said:
All my "Best friends" Once accused me of raping a 15 year old and where so convinced i'd done it they decided to tell everyone in school an act that ended with me having my head slammed into a coat hook, three broken ribs and a dislocated finger, this was followed by a hasty apology after the girl stepped in and told them what had really happened.

Real Story: A girl i knew from a support group i helped with got insanely drunk one night and i was trying to get her back to her friends house to sober her up of course she fought back because you know 15 and drunk isn't going to go down well with anyone's parents and all the seen was her trying to fight me off.

Feel better now?
...This isn't going to make you feel any better, but I'm sorry that happened to you.
I actually feel rather uncomfortable now, because if I was convinced you'd raped someone, I'd probably have hurt you a lot worse than just that.
...I didn't even do anything this time and I feel terrible.
Nah it's fine really, I got over it a few months later and you aren't the first person to be convinced i had done it before i was able to finish the story it worked out well for me in the end though had i remained with said group i would have ended up just like them, drug filled and alone XD
Oh, don't get me wrong, I believe that you're innocent. :p I've just got a thing, rape is the worst crime I think anyone can commit.
And you're right. Better a few broken bones than a wasted, burned out life.
Ah that's grand it really is a horrible act and anyone who commits it deserves to be locked in a room with all the male relatives of that girl i think that would be a fitting punishment.
 

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MaxTheReaper said:
darkless said:
MaxTheReaper said:
darkless said:
MaxTheReaper said:
darkless said:
All my "Best friends" Once accused me of raping a 15 year old and where so convinced i'd done it they decided to tell everyone in school an act that ended with me having my head slammed into a coat hook, three broken ribs and a dislocated finger, this was followed by a hasty apology after the girl stepped in and told them what had really happened.

Real Story: A girl i knew from a support group i helped with got insanely drunk one night and i was trying to get her back to her friends house to sober her up of course she fought back because you know 15 and drunk isn't going to go down well with anyone's parents and all the seen was her trying to fight me off.

Feel better now?
...This isn't going to make you feel any better, but I'm sorry that happened to you.
I actually feel rather uncomfortable now, because if I was convinced you'd raped someone, I'd probably have hurt you a lot worse than just that.
...I didn't even do anything this time and I feel terrible.
Nah it's fine really, I got over it a few months later and you aren't the first person to be convinced i had done it before i was able to finish the story it worked out well for me in the end though had i remained with said group i would have ended up just like them, drug filled and alone XD
Oh, don't get me wrong, I believe that you're innocent. :p I've just got a thing, rape is the worst crime I think anyone can commit.
And you're right. Better a few broken bones than a wasted, burned out life.
Ah that's grand it really is a horrible act and anyone who commits it deserves to be locked in a room with all the male relatives of that girl i think that would be a fitting punishment.
Or the male relatives of the male. Female on male rape, while less common, still happens.
Not sure how common male/male is, especially outside of prison. (Or in it, for that matter.)
WEll if its a female who did the deed i would suggest the female members of the family take it out on her as the male members ganging up on and beating a woman wouldn't be much better.
 

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darkless said:
All my "Best friends" Once accused me of raping a 15 year old and where so convinced i'd done it they decided to tell everyone in school an act that ended with me having my head slammed into a coat hook, three broken ribs and a dislocated finger, this was followed by a hasty apology after the girl stepped in and told them what had really happened.

Real Story: A girl i knew from a support group i helped with got insanely drunk one night and i was trying to get her back to her friends house to sober her up of course she fought back because you know 15 and drunk isn't going to go down well with anyone's parents and all the seen was her trying to fight me off.

Feel better now?
The people at my school said to everyone that I killed some people, and I ended up at a police station, wich kinda killed my social life.
 

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Friends will come and go. The only thing that you can do is be the best friend possible while you are friends. If things don't quite pan out, then be happy for the time that you had together and move on.
 

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I have two good friends whom I have known one from birth, and the other from 1st grade on. The best friends someone could wish for.


Not all friends are backstabbing pricks, you just need to get the right friends. :)