Metalix Knightmare said:
Azure23 said:
Metalix Knightmare said:
Eric the Orange said:
Deathfish15 said:
that doesn't make it any less morally wrong.
What is morally wrong about it?
I was pulled because a bunch of soccer moms found it morally offensive.
Replace "soccer moms" with "survivors of sexual assault and victims of the sex industry" and you might have something there. Is it really so difficult to imagine those types of people being sincerely offended by a game that tacitly encourages you to murder prostitutes (statistically one of the groups with the highest percentage of victimization, physically and sexually)?
Sorry to get to you so late on this one, but I just kept palming my face every time I looked at your post for awhile there.
First off, if we're going to start making ALL of our entertainment and such with trigger warnings in mind, then we might as well just end civilization and go back to the caves, and even THAT would probably trigger a traumatic experience in a number of people. Do you have ANY idea whatsoever as to what could trigger or offend someone who has gone through a traumatic experience? FREAKING ANYTHING! All that needs to happen is for the brain to end up latching on to a specific aspect of the event. A person assaulted in an elevator could be triggered by say, enclosed spaces, muzak, elevators, or even the color of their assailant's clothing.
Secondly, doing everything you can to avoid triggers is actually a REALLY freaking bad idea. All that will end up doing is constantly reenforcing that you were, and are a victim. That you have been soild in some way, or that you are weak. The best way of dealing with triggers is to try and overcome them. Make the fear no longer have any power over you.
Finally, WHERE THE FREAK WERE HAVE THESE SURVIVORS BEEN, AND WHY ARE THEY GETTING UPSET NOW!? The whole killing prostitutes for refunds thing has been around since GTA3 at the very least, and GTA5 has been out for almost two freaking years! It seems a little odd that it's only NOW that they're getting upset by this thing.
No problem, and sorry about making a post so facepalm-worthy, I hope your forehead doesn't have a big handprint on it now.
Look, I didn't say anything about triggers in my post for one very good reason. Being triggered and being offended, are not the same thing. People who equate the two generally really piss me off because they clearly have no idea what it's like living with PTSD. That said, I have a pretty good idea what triggers me, as I am a survivor of sexual assault and I've worked very hard with my therapist to discover and isolate what triggers my flashbacks (by the way I'm not upset at your assumption that I don't know what I'm taking about, generally people assume someone has not been raped, and that's fine).
And once again, being offended and having a flashback triggered are not the same thing. Generally if I'm offended I'm not overcome with fear, I don't start shaking uncontrollably, I don't remember in vivid, perfect detail an event that almost ended my life. It looks like you played I have no mouth and I must scream and got your working understanding of sexual assault and triggers from there, and frankly, it's not that bad a representation, but speaking to a few real survivors might've given you a better understanding.
Anyway, to address another point. You said that if we were to make all of our entertainment with trigger warnings in mind we should just end civilization, and I'm not sure I agree with that. While triggers can be incredibly diverse, you can generally assume that anything with a depiction of a violent rape is going to trigger someone, and put a small, non intrusive warning on the box, cover, poster, whatever. Hell I even know some people who'd see that sort of thing, assume the movie, game, book, etc is hardcore and be more likely to consume that particular piece of media, edgy as they are. I fail to see how said small, non intrusive warning for a very common trigger would "end all civilization."
I'm very glad that you don't want to reinforce narratives of victim hood, that's a healthy, progressive viewpoint. But you can do that and still be sensitive to other people. Shock therapy is in fact not the most effective form of therapy for the vast majority of sexual assault victims. It's been twelve years since my assault and I in no way feel soiled or weak. I didn't build up a resistance to triggers by being exposed to them, which you seem to suggest (I could be entirely wrong here, that's just my interpretation). I just came to terms with things over time and with the help of a series of therapists and a very wonderful girlfriend (now my fiancé).
As to where these people have been since GTA3? I have no idea. People become aware of things at different times. Perhaps they knew of the game but not the action they took issue with until they walked in on a family member killing a prostitute or something. Perhaps they had no idea what GTA was until someone told them and they looked into it. I can't tell you because I am not them. And neither are you. Neither of us are in a position to make assumptions about when they became aware of it.
I responded to your original post because I felt like you were disingenuously (or perhaps not, more than a few people in this thread have weighed in without reading the original petition) misrepresenting both the character of the petitioners and the form of their outrage. They are not some parent watch association character-assassinating your favorite game, they are women who have experienced sexual violence and victimization at the hands of the illegal sex trade. I can empathize with them and understand their feelings of outrage (that I don't particularly share, by the way. It's gross, but the whole game is gross), even if I disagree with how they've chosen to handle it. I feel like an awareness campaign about the content of the game would have been much more helpful to parents who were considering buying this game for their children, but that's neither here nor there, they did what they did within their rights.
I hope this post is less facepalm-worthy for you, and at least a bit helpful in understanding my viewpoint.
Edit: just realized I wrote a damn essay, sorry about the length.