Ragsnstitches said:
People tell me how it's a form of expression. So's pyromania and wrist slitting, that argument is vague and holds little to no weight.
Aren't pyromania and wrist slitting something caused by psychological trauma and/or depression? I mean, I yet have to see someone praising a pyromaniac for his "form of expression" and not handing him over to the police and then eventually to a psychiatrist. Same for wrist slitting; it's a disturbing act of self mutilation that screams "I need professional help". Well, I guess you can say that tattooing yourself is also a form of "mutilation", but I would disagree and I would not compare tattoos with psychological illnesses.
I believe what people generally dislike about tattoos are not tattoos themselves, but people who get them on impulse. I have four tattoos right now, I didn't take any less than at least a year on deciding about them. And for some, I've wanted them since I was 12 (I remember drawing two runes into my legs/arms with markers when I was 12; 9 years later, I have those same two runes tattooed on my hands). I know people who just got into the parlour and got a tattoo, meaningless and pointless. But who am I to speak for them? One girl told me how she just walked by a parlour, decided to get a tattoo, got in, told them to tattoo a few stars on her shoulder and that was it. She said it means nothing more than a decoration. I am against that because those kind of tattoos (decorative stars, random animals, tribals (-.-), barbed wires and other cliché tattoos) you get bored with eventually (though, it's not really a set rule, there certainly are people who have such tattoos and don't regret them). To me, a tattoo is a symbol of something, it has a story and makes sense in context, it makes me happy and I love to see them on me. It means something, usually more than just one thing, and I am very fond of symbolic thinking so those symbols on me are a genuine part of me and I can't imagine myself without them now. I will most certainly get at least one or two more. I love discrete tattoos, black ink only that do not stick out too much.
In the end, I don't think it's that big of a deal. There are much more important "permanent" things we do in life and we don't even notice. A tattoo is just ink on your skin, usually meaningful and important to the person who got it. If you believe it's not for you or that you might end up being bored with it, don't do it. It's not required of anyone. I know how annoying it can be to see someone with a really stupid tribal tattoo, but then again, who are we to judge?