remnant_phoenix said:
Lilani said:
Anyway, I think as long as we don't lower our standards and expectations for formal writing, "textese" will not mar the English language as much as some people think it will.
That's the issue, though. As this sort of communication becomes more and more common, especially among teenagers and young adults, there is a certain expectation that certain shorthand SHOULD be allowed in formal writing, as I showed in my anecdote.
I'm with you that some people are more alarmist about it than they should be, and I'm not trying to be alarmist, but I do think that "textese" does more harm than good for the development of writing skills.
I see your point, but I think what it all comes down to is how much a person cares about knowing and using proper grammar. I mean, you can block a child off from improper grammar their entire childhood, but in the end when they are inevitably exposed to the "real world" they will pick up what they want here and there and decide on their own what they want to use. Some people are just predisposed to using simpler language than others, and some people care about mistakes more than others.
In school, they will learn proper grammar--or they should, anyway. And if their future careers, or their aspirations, or even just their curiosity require them to retain that knowledge (or even seek out more), then that is what they will do. If they aren't interested, they won't learn it.
Also, you act as though the use of proper grammar in common situations with young folk was running rampant before "textese." Have you heard children and teens talk amongst themselves before? It can be almost painful sometimes. Their little mistakes and made up uses for words run rampant like trends when they get out. And in the school situation, they're all packed in there together, allowing those grammatical fallacies to slowly cook into the deepest parts of their minds. These mistakes slowly becoming adopted as the "right" simply by repetition and peer pressure.
And in the end, the ones who learn and care enough will grow out of it. And those who don't will not. It's sad, but true. That is why you'll get a certain group of college students who still say things like "You times the numbers" and confuse the usages of there, their, and they're, and another group solely devoted to pointing out the mistakes of the former. Some people just don't give two shits. They'll keep making the mistakes regardless of how they learned them, simply because it doesn't matter to them.