That awful sinking feeling

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Plurralbles

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Did you ever meet a girl, talk to her, get along well and feel awesome and then that night you realize five very important things:

Sorority girl
Double D's
a million guy friends
cheerleader
medical student


and you just kinda' slap yourself and chalk it up to she might as well be on the moon?

EDIT: Well, okay, won't give up then. Anyway, it was just kinda' blinding.
 

TheAmazingHobo

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Plurralbles said:
Did you ever meet a girl, talk to her, get along well and feel awesome and then that night you realize five very important things:

Sorority girl
Double D's
a million guy friends
cheerleader
medical student


and you just kinda' slap yourself and chalk it up to she might as well be on the moon?
I... what ?
Is this about her being "out of your league" ?
But then... she already does spend time with you, right ?
And you get along well ?
But because she has a lot of awesome qualities you give up on.... what ?
 

tokae

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I sell myself short all the time. So your not alone.
But, atleast try to go for it. I tried, and I have a wonderful girlfriend because of it.
The trick is to see through your own psychosis (of sort). To realize that it's just your mind speaking.

(Hmh, sounds like some sort of extreme "self-help"-book :p)
 

Caligulove

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Well, it sounds like 'cliche advice' or something, but honestly- she might as well be on the moon? well yea- with that attitude.

Women, especially the ones that have all this attention from guys like a CONFIDENT guy, that won't just hang around them but can engage them and take initiative, but you wont stand a chance if you already think she's in some kind of 'league' other than you- change that! It might sound like some kind of 'show why you stand out from the other potential males during mating rituals' thing from a nature show but it's true.

There's a lot of talk about the gap in attractiveness between some couples. Personality and Character really attractiveness in places where you might conventionally be seen as fairly 'normal' looking or whatever you think you are lacking in physical features. Plus you will never know unless you try. Rejection really isnt as bad as your brain or other people might say it is.

If you are- study it, learn from it, change things and try again. Otherwise you'll regret the later parts of your life for not going out and at least trying to get with these girls. Last bit of advice, though- if the girl in question does believe in that same kind of 'league' system and rejects you because of some bullshit superfluous reason- then you're better off that way. Girls like that have a lot of growing up to do and you can't help them. It's not about being an Alpha or putting on a rouse or a 'game' that you think she will be attracted to. It's about being confident in who you are your qualities, along with being comfortable about so-called 'faults' as being part of your individuality and something that you shouldn't be ashamed of. Intelligent and sly in behavior yet manly in delivery.