Quick correction based on what I saw, though: Transphobia, not homophobia. It's arguable that it could've been both, but the complaints I saw were mostly focused on that.
So, I'm of the belief that no subject should be off-limits for comedy. However, "it's just a joke" is not an actual defense of something that's harmful, either actively or passively. Joking about how a woman (who we presume is taken as a woman within the context of the limerick because it's never hinted as otherwise) isn't
actually a woman because she has a penis (or for whatever other reasons you want to come up with; I'll admit I don't remember the exact lines used in this particular case) is demonstrably harmful and is, in fact, something bigoted people do on a daily basis. And there's no reason for it other than to deny somebody their sense of self because they don't conform to your narrow viewpoint of the world (not you specifically).
Racist jokes are, from my understanding, generally considered taboo these days. I'm not really up-to-date on the current comedians who are really big, but even eight years ago when I sort of was the best you could typically get away with were self-deprecating jokes that used the teller as the punchline. Sexist jokes seem to flip-flop between being acceptable and not, and gay people are still used as punchlines, often in ways that perpetuate negative stereotypes and contribute to a culture that urges straight men to have an irrational fear of being alone with gay men. Transphobia is barely even being recognized as a problem, because there are still so many people who refuse to even acknowledge that trans men and women exist.
"The road to hell is paved with good intentions" and all that jazz.
Other cases such as complaints that box art was too suggestive or Tecmo deciding that some of their games can stay on their side of the Pacific only strengthen the premise that this is pretty much a foot in the door style of persuasion. Win enough minor victories and major victories become much easier. For the less conspiratorially minded few of these suggestions actually improve the game in any significant manner except to pander to someone's ideological beliefs or to assuage some sort of outrage that seems to puzzle developers every time it flares up. Thus it is looked at as tilting at windmills.
I'll be honest, I see far more outrage at what people
perceive to be "outrage" than any
actual outrage about games. Maybe I just don't spend enough time trawling through Twitter, but the people I see getting actually upset about things are upset about things that are just as trivial as the people they accuse of being upset.
God, that was a bad sentence.
"This games offends me and needs to change!" is hardly a rational argument and pertinent to the original topic of this thread.
On the flip side, "this person's offense offends me, don't change anything!!!" is also possibly the least-helpful things somebody could say in response to somebody asking a developer/publisher to be more mindful of certain things. And yet, it seems to be the only reaction I ever see; I never see someone who is able to explain
why said product shouldn't be altered, other than perhaps some limp-wristed excuse of "artistic vision" (where was that when by and large most of the same people who think games shouldn't be changed were clamoring for the changing of
Mass Effect 3?).