shellshock3d said:
Therumancer said:
Well, the problem I have with this "test" is that it ironically winds up excluding almost all movies made by women for women, the classic "chick flicks" which make a fortune at the box office by giving women what they want. Women tend to be a lot more relational than men when it comes to movies and what they want, guys tend to not really care all that much if there is a romance subplot or not, women on the other hand are rarely interested if there isn't one that at least has some focus. What's more a lot of the "strong female characters" mentioned here like Sarah Connor, rarely seem to make many women's list of the characters that they relate to. To geeks she's cool because she's one of the quintessential female action heroes, doing the kinds of things that you would normally see a male protagonist doing, but that doesn't actually make her all that appealing to women, who do indeed produce their own action heroes and such, but it tends to be done a little differently.
Excuse me? You are not a woman so please do not try to tell me what woman want or how women think. I, as a woman, am always tickled whenever a movie or a book doesn't have a romantic subplot. You know why all these movies have romance in them and are marketed towards women? Because that's what men think we want. We don't. I want action and adventure and maybe some cool friendships. And newsflash, most romantic comedies are written and directed by men.
To me it sounds like your basically saying "I am an exception, and thus the rule is wrong", alas it does not work like that. There will always be exceptions to everything, and like it or not what I'm saying happens to be the truth. Whether you and Bob like the idea of statistics and numbers, and the point that human behaviors can be quantified, defined, controlled, and/or modified doesn't change the fact that it's true. In this case, it's simple sociology of a sort that's been being exploited by advertisers and creators for years. Women can be lumped together as a group, and products created that will sell to them based on common threads that will appeal to the majority, leading to the way things play out in movies, fiction, etc. Not to mention that the point is indeed reinforced by what women themselves create, such as when you decide to talk a walk down the romance section of a bookstore. When it comes to movies and TV, sure the screenplay might have been done by a guy, but oftentimes women are the producers or the original creators, with the work oftentimes being based off of a romance novel, or in some cases commissioned by an actress (who also acts as one of the producers) to act as a vehicle for her, and put out a movie she knows will have appeal to women and she can collect a direct share of the profits from.
I do get where your coming from, your saying "I don't resemble that stereotype", and that's fine, I believe you, but that simply makes you unusual, it in no way impacts what I'm saying.
It's sort of like a black person getting all upset about stereotypes in the media and pointing out how much they differ from the norm. In the meantime when an ad firm wants to sell a product to black America he whips out the sports stars, hip hop, and gangsta rap, and generally succeeds by playing the numbers. In comparison if he advertises based on the perception encouraged by "this is not true" internet rants, money is going to be lost.
People as a whole can be broken down into groups ethnic, gender, subcultures, etc. As much as one might argue an individual can vary, the bigger the groups get the more alike they become until you wind up with a lot of trends that create the stereotypes, which are then exploited to create the products and the advertising used to sell them.
See, if more women were like you, then things would be different, and things would be marketed differently, but they are not. This is why the trends in movies, and products directed largely at women continue the way they are, and why the "Blechdel test" is ultimately irrelevant.
Sure a lot of people might jump on me for saying this, but let's be honest, sociology exists for a reason, and much as people might want to deny it, it works. Along with it's sister science psychology, people wind up being very predictable at the end of the day. We're advanced enough to resent this, but consider with the right knowledge, things like hypnosis and high end deprogramming/brainwashing methods can be used to literally program a person... almost like a computer.
I'm fairly tired, so hopefully this is coherent, and fairly polite despite what I perceive as a rather heated response, since I don't want to start some kind of brawl or derail this thread. If it helps, Bob does agree with you. In my case however, I do believe that I can speak ABOUT women as a group without being one myself, as that is the root of sociology. For good or ill, it should also be noted that these same tables can be turned on me with a similar degree of truth in other types of discussions.